Ukusuka kwindlela umntu athetha ngayo, kuxhomekeka kakhulu, umzekelo, indlela aza kuxoxisana ngayo nabanye, indlela yokwakha umsebenzi wakhe kunye nobomi ngokubanzi. Yingakho ulwazi malunga nendlela yokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle lufanelekileyo. Kukho abantu abazalelwe izivakalisi, kodwa wonke umntu unethuba lokuphuhlisa isipho esinjalo.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha?
Ukuze ufezekise umphumo omuhle, kufuneka uqeqeshe rhoqo. Kukho imiba emininzi, kodwa kukho imiba emininzi ebalulekileyo, siya kuthetha ngabo.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha nabantu ngokuchanekileyo:
- Kubalulekile ukwakha iziphakamiso ngokuthembeka, apho zifundwa iincwadi okanye ubuncinane iimagazini, ekubeni zonke iikhetshi zidlula umhleli, kwaye ngoko zakhiwe ngokuchanekileyo. Bhala phantsi iingcamango zakho, uzifunde kwaye ubalasele iimpazamo. Lo mkhuba uza kwenza ukuba ukwazi ukulungisa imeko.
- Ingongoma elandelayo, indlela yokufunda ukuthetha ngengqiqo - gcwalisa isigama sakho. Kule njongo, kusemfuneko ukuba ufunde, kodwa ayikho iincwadi eziqhelekileyo, kodwa izinto ezincinci kakhulu ezijoliswe kummandla othile. Amagama angcolileyo "ahlambe" usebenzisa isichazi esichazayo.
- Ukuba kukho iingxaki ngokuthetha koluntu, ngoko kufuneka uzilungiselele ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuqala, bhala phantsi zonke iimpendulo zakho kumakhadi eza kukunceda ukubonisa ngokufanelekileyo ulwazi oluyimfuneko.
- Ukuqonda indlela yokufunda ukuthetha nabantu, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngamagama-ama-parasites, okumele ukuba angabandakanywa kwiintetho zabo. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwiilwimi ezingcolileyo, kodwa kunye namazwi athi "mfutshane", "ngokubanzi", "uhlobo", njl. Ukuchonga "iintlekele" zakho, nje urekhode incoko nomhlobo okanye izalamane kwirekhoda.
Ukucacisa iingcamango zakhe, zama ukugqamisa into ephambili, ngoko umnxibelelwano akayi kudinwa ukuthetha kwaye uya kukwazi ukuqonda intsingiselo. Oku kungafundwa ngokubhala izivakalisi kunye nokususa amagama angadingekile.