Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiiholide abafazi bava iinqwenela zolonwabo lwabesetyhini. Kodwa akukho migaqo ekhethekileyo yolonwabo lwabesetyhini. Okwangoku, isondo esilungileyo sinokunye: unokuzidela kwiintsapho, emsebenzini, ubugcisa, isayensi, okanye ubugcisa. Naluphina ukhetho lokunika ukwaneliseka kunye nomnqweno wobomi kuya kulungile.
Izixhobo zokwenene ulonwabo lwabesifazane:
- Inyolo yolona yowesifazane kunzima ukucinga ngaphandle komntu. Ngenxa yokuba imfuno ebalulekileyo yowesifazane inothando. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda intlawulo yakhe, ibhinqa kufuneka ivelelwe intsilelo yomntu kunye nomnqweno kunye nothando lomtshato libonakalise kumfazi wonke amandla kunye nokuzaliseka kobomi.
- Kwabaninzi, intsapho yinto yolonwabo lwabafazi. Ngokufanelekileyo, oku kuluhlu olupheleleyo kunye oluhambelana noluntu: kunye nomyeni wakhe nabantwana, apho bathanda khona, balinde, baqonde, apho kukho uthando noxolo, ukuhleka kwabantwana kuyava. Ingaba unako ukudala intsapho enjalo incike ngokupheleleyo kuye. Ukuba intsapho ayinakongeza, ngoko lonwabe ufuna umntwana kunye nomntu ongokoqobo, onokumnika uthando kuye.
- Ukuphila kakuhle kukunye okubalulekileyo kwintlalo yesibini elula. Kubonakala xa kukho indlu epholileyo apho umntu efuna ukubuyela khona, umgangatho osemgangathweni wokuphila, kukho inkxaso kumntu onamandla okwazi ukuthatha isigqibo semicimbi ebalulekileyo kuye.
- Ubumnandi obumnandi besifazane buya kusebenza. La mabhinqa amabhinqa athola imoto engavamile kwimisebenzi yabo. Kwaye oku kuya kuqondwa - inwaba yabo emsebenzini, apho abayi kukhanyela khona.
- Ulonwaba olufutshane olufutshane olunokuthi lube kwimibandela elula, iintyatyambo ezikhulayo, ukuya kuma-movie, kwiindawo zokuzonwabisa, ukuphumla kunye nosapho, kunye nemidlalo yokuzonwabisa kunye neminye imisebenzi ezalisekisa ubomi kunye nokwenyusa umfazi. Yaye yintoni inhlanhla yentsuku yohlobo ukusinda emsebenzini ukuba uthathe uhambo lokuhamba kunye nabahlobo. Ezi zihlandlo zovuyo olungapheliyo ziyinto engavamile.
- Ibhinqa lingamfumana ulonwabo ngobunono. Inika ithuba lokuzibona, uzalise ubomi ngentsingiselo. Ibhinqa livuya kakhulu ngeli thuba lokudala, lizivakalise.
Iimfihlelo Zolonwabo lwabesetyhini:
- Imfihlelo isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini. Uyavuya njengoko unjalo. Ukwenza oku, ungakuvumeli ukuba unqobe iingcamango ezimbi, yiba yinkosi yakho. Khawucinge ukuba konke kulungile kuwe, vumela uvuyo lwakho aluxhomekeke kwimozulu, umphathi kunye nomvuzo. Uzenza ngokwakho iingcamango zakho, kungekhona ngeemeko zangaphandle. Xa ulonwabo aluxhomekeke kuyo nayiphi na into, awukho isizathu sokudabuka. Naluphi na umonakalo onxulumene nawo, kukho abo babi kakhulu ngakumbi kunoko, khumbula oku. Kwimeko nganye, khangela i-positive.
- Imfihlelo yesibili yendlela yokufumana ulonwabo lwababhinqa kukuba kukuvuyisa ngokwenene. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuphucula isimo sengqondo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba banike ubuncinci beyure ngosuku.
- Isondlo sithintela nokuphila kakuhle. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, gwema ukuphazamiseka kokutya: utywala, ikhofi, ukutya okuqulethe ininzi ishukela, izongezo zokufakelwa, ukutya izityalo, izityalo, iziqhamo kunye nemifuno.
- Imfihlelo yolonwabo lwabasetyhini yindlela yamandla. Sinokuthatha okulungileyo kumsebenzi - ukukhupha okulungileyo kwimizuzu yonke. Izikhumbuzo zenziwa ngamaxesha akhethekileyo. Ukuqokelela le mizuzu - uqokelela uvuyo lwakho. Ubomi okwangoku bunokubangela ukudabuka, kunqoba uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa.
- Ukuba ufuna ulonwabo lwentombi - zibeke iinjongo. Banikela intsingiselo ebomini.
Xa kukho injongo, umntu akayi kuhluma, ubunzima obude ebomini bafumana lula ngokulula. - Imfihlelo yolonwabo yowesifazane ingqondo yokuhleka. Ukuhleka kunciphisa uxinzelelo, kwandisa amandla engqondo.
- Amandla okunika nokunceda abanye. Ukuvuyisa umntu - siyazifumana.
- Ulwalamano olulinganayo nabantu. Wonke umntu ufuna abanye. Ulwalamano olusondeleyo lunenza amaxesha amanzima lula, kwaye amaxesha amnandi ayavuya.
Yonwabile, kwaye wonk 'ubani makenze isigqibo sokuba unwabile kangakanani, kwaye yintoni.