Ukuba wakwazi ukumkhohlisa umntu uLoo, ngoku kufuneka usebenze ukuze umgcine kufuphi nawe. "UKumkani wezilwanyana" ngokusemthethweni ufuna umfazi ofanelekileyo oza kuhlangabeza imigaqo. Amantombazana amaninzi anomdla kwindlela yokuphumelela nokubamba indoda kaLeo ecaleni kwayo. Khumbula ukuba amadoda anjalo ayamkeli naliphi na uxinzelelo kunye ne-blackmail. Ukuze ube kufuphi nabameleli balo mqondiso, kufuneka ukwazi ukukhetha kwakhe.
Uyithanda njani indoda kaLeon uze uyigcine?
Ukusebenzisa isiluleko esinikezwa ngabavumisi beenkwenkwezi, ngamnye umfazi unethuba lokubopha indoda. Indlela yokugcina umntu we-Leo ngobomi:
- Amadoda azalwe phantsi kweempawu zolu phawu ukhetha kuphela abagcini beemali, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukuthobela imeko. Iingonyama ziyakuthanda xa amanye amadoda ebheka iqabane lawo, kodwa ekwenzeni njalo, akufanele, nangona kunjalo, anike impendulo.
- Iingonyama ziyakuthanda ukuqashelwa kwabanye kwaye, okokuqala, ezikhethiweyo zazo. Yingakho naliphi na ithuba, mdumise umthandayo, kwaye ngokukodwa nabanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukuba abameli balo mqondiso ukuba bathathe iingcebiso zabo baze balandele imiyalelo engacacile.
- Ukufumanisa indlela yokugcina umntu we-Leo, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngomgangatho obalulekileyo njengokuthembeka. Kubalulekile ukwabelana ngeminqweno kunye neengxaki zomntu othandekayo, ngelixa unikeza iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kunye neengcebiso.
- Ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhlala nomntu onjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ube nomonde kwaye uhlawule. Ingonyama idinga inkululeko, ibekele eceleni bucala elifutshane kwicala. Ungazami ukumfundisa kwaye ubuhlobo buya kuba namandla.
Inkunzi iya kuthandana nomfazi othembekileyo oya kukhanya ebantwini, kodwa emva kwayo uza kuhlala enentombi ethembekileyo nekhuthazayo.