Indlela yokuxelela abantwana malunga nemfazwe?
Okokuqala, inkunzi imele ifumane ulwazi malunga naluphi imfazwe kwaye ngubani oomkhosi. Oku kuya kunika ithuba lokuqonda into eyenziwa ngenxa yokunqoba nobomi obunokuthula kubantu banamhlanje.
Abazali mabaqwalasele indlela yokuxelela umntwana malunga nemfazwe ukuze angamthumisi. Kweendlela ezininzi ibali liya kuxhomekeka kwiminyaka emininzi. Abantwana bokuqala esikolweni akufanele banike ulwazi olunzulu. Apha ungazibamba kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo. Ezinye iimbali zembali kufuneka zixoxwe nabadala. Abantwana banokuba nemibuzo emininzi malunga noko bakuva. Abazali bafanele balungele ukuphendula. Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba imfazwe yintlekele ebangele izigidi zabantu. Kufuneka icaciswe ukuba le nkathazo yachaphazela wonke umntu. Emva koko, zonke iintsapho, enye indlela okanye enye, zalahlekelwa ngumntu osondelene nabo kuloo minyaka.
Ukucinga ngendlela enokwenzeka ngayo ukuxelela abantwana ngemfazwe, kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula izilwanyana eziqhelekileyo. Ukusuka kubo unokuva ibali langempela, inkcazo yesiganeko seminyaka yemfazwe. Oku akukona nje umdla, kodwa kuncedo. Ukuphulaphula amabali ababufakazi bokuzibonela, abantwana baya kuthathwa ngokuhlonipha abantu abadala. Abazali bangaphambili bafanele baxelele ukuba kutheni aba bantu bafanelwe inhlonipho, kunye nokuthetha malunga nokuba unyaka wonke bafumana encinci.
Kubantwana besikolo esikolweni ngo-Meyi 9, kukulungile ukuhlela ii-movie ezibukeleyo ngemfazwe. Unokuzibukela kunye nosapho lonke. Ezi zihlandlo ezingenakuqondakala kubafana, isizukulwana esidala siya kukwazi ukucacisa.
Kwakhona kunomdla ukulungiselela uhambo ukuya kwiindawo ezizukileyo zempi. Kuhle, ukuba umntwana ngokwakhe uza kubeka iziqhumbuzo kwizikhumbuzo.
Ukuba kukho abantu abanamandla kwiintsapho, ngoSuku loLwahlulo luncedo kubantwana ukuba bababatyelele ukuba bawavulele, kwaye baqwalasele iimbuyekezo kunye nemiyalelo, imifanekiso yale minyaka.