I-dummy yonyana olusandul Njengoko uyayazi, inkqubo yokutshiza yinkcazo yemvelo yabantwana beli lizwe, elibonakala ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Usana, ngelixa lihlala emzimbeni womama, lihlala lithatha inkwenkwana yakhe, ngokuqinisekiswa yimifanekiso emininzi ye-ultrasound. Yile ndlela indlela yokutya yokutya isilungele ukudliwa emva kokuzalwa. Ukongezelela, ukusondla yinkqubo eyanceda ukuzinzisa umntwana, kwaye ikuvumela ukuba uphazamise umntwana ukususela ekuvuseleleni.
Ngeliphi ixesha lokuqalisa ukuluma kwi-ingono?
Usana lukhula, kwaye ixesha lifika xa umama eqala ukucinga malunga nendlela yokunciphisa umntwana wakho kwi- pacifier , kwaye wenze okulungileyo. Kuyaziwa ukuba akukho ndlela eyiyo eyi-100%. Oku kufuna indlela ethile.
Namhlanje, amazinyo abantwana awanakho ukunika impendulo engabonakaliyo kumbuzo: xa (ubuninzi) kufuneka uqalise ukulila umntwana ukusuka kwi-dummy. Kodwa kusekho uluvo lokuba kungcono ukwenza oku kwiinyanga ezili-6-9. Ngokwenza oko, kunzima ukwenza.
Unokutshatyalaliswa njani umntwana wakho kwi-dummy?
Zininzi zonke iindlela kunye nobuchule bokukrazula kwi-dummy kungenziwa ngokwahlukileyo ngokwahlukileyo:
- bukhali;
- ngokugqithiseleyo.
Njengoko uyazi, indlela yokuthoba umntwana ukusondeza i-dummy ingasetyenziswa malunga naluphi na ubudala, kodwa kungcono ukuqala xa umntwana ephakathi kweenyanga ezi-6-9.
Ngexesha elifanayo, kunqatshelwe ukuba umama anike umntwana umntwana wokuqala ukukhala. Ngenxa yokuqinisekiswa kwakhe, kucetyiswa ukuba kusetyenziswe ezinye iindlela (ukondla, ukukhupha, ukugubha, ukuphazamisa, njl.). Umele uzame ukunganiki ngokungekho mfuneko. Oku kunokwenziwa kuphela kwezo meko xa ezinye iindlela zokuzola zingakhange zinike iziphumo. Emva kokuba umntwana ekhulile aze alele, angaqapheli athathe kwaye afihle i-pacifier, oko kukuthi, ukuphuma kwexesha kubakho ngexesha lokulala, ebusuku.
Yenza oku ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, ngoko ixesha elichithwe ngaphandle kwe "pacifier" liya kukhula rhoqo.
Indlela ephilileyo yokulumka kwi-dummy ingasetyenziselwa kuphela abantwana abakhulileyo, abaqala ukulawula kakuhle izenzo zabo. Ngokuchasene nantoni na izidumbu zezilwanyana zincoma ukuba ziqale ukucothula kwi-pacifier, xa umntwana ejika ezinyangeni ezisibhozo ubudala, abaninzi abantwana abanayo. Kwimininzi, inkqubo iyenziwa kwiminyaka eyi-1.5-3. Indlela yokuxothwa ngokukhawuleza iyancitshiswa kwimithetho elandelayo:
- Ukuthintela umntwana ekutsaleni iinambuzane kuyimfuneko ngokuthe ngcembe. Xa ushiya ukuhamba, shiya i-pacifier ekhaya, ungayinikeli umntwana wakho ngexesha lokuhlamba, ukudlala imidlalo, ukubukela iikhathuni, njl njl.
- Cwangcisa "ukwahlukana". Ngokomzekelo, yenza oku kwifom edlalwayo, uxwayise umntwana kwangaphambili ukuba i-fairy iya kuza ngeveki kwaye ithathe umntwana othandekayo. Ngokubuya, uya kufumana isipho.
- Musa ukutshitshisa umntwana wakho xa usana ne-pacifier, kodwa qiniseka ukumdumisa xa engenzi ngaphandle kwexesha elide.
- Ngethuba lokuxothwa kwe-excommunication ungenise ezinye iinguqu ebomini bakhe ( ukuxhamla ebhodweni , ukungena kwi-kindergarten, njl.).
- Yiba neenkqubela ngokukodwa kwaye zenzeke kwizenzo zabo. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlalise umntwana osuka kwi-pacifier,
Umama kufuneka adibanise "umzabalazo" omde kwaye angabuyi ngaphantsi kweemeko. - Musa ukumnika ixesha lomntwana lokukhupha. Uhlala uboleka ngemidlalo, ukuzizonwabisa, uhamba emoyeni omtsha.
- Yenza umgodi kwinqonga le-pacifier okanye usike. Emva koko, umntwana akayi kukhululeka kakhulu, kwaye umama uya kukwazi ukumqinisekisa ukuba i-dummy yaphuka.
Ukusetyenziswa kwezicatshulwa ezichazwe ngasentla kuya kunceda umama ukuba aphule umntwana wakhe kumkhwa wokutshiza i-pacifier.