Ukuziphatha okubi kokuphazamiseka kwintsapho yomnye umntu akufanelekanga ukuthetha - kufuneka ukuba sele kubonakala kunoma yimuphi umqondo okhulileyo, omdala. Nangona kunjalo, amaninzi amaninzi anomdla wendlela yokutshatyalalisa indoda esatshatileyo, ecacisa izenzo zabo ezingenakubekezeleka, uthando olungathandabuzekiyo. Makhe sithethe into enye - indoda ekhethiweyo ayifani nendoda enothando, ngoko ubophe inceku kuwe, kungekhona umntu .
Izinkolelo Zenkolo
Xa kuziwa kwindlela yokutshintsha indoda eyatshatileyo, ubunzima buya kuvela kuxhomekeke kwindlela intanda yakho ephathwa ngayo nentsapho yakhe. Ukuba izibophelelo zakhe zinobuqili, ukutshabalalisa le ntsapho kuya kunzima kuwe. Le nkqubo ithatha iinyanga ezininzi, ingakhankanyi into yokuba uya kuyidinga ukuqhuba uchungechunge lwezithethe, kwaye kungekhona nje inyanga epheleleyo ukufunda ukupasa.
Isikhundla sakho senziwe lula xa yintsapho, apho ubuhlobo obungenakuncitshiswa nakwabasekhaya. Ukuxabana ngakumbi kunye neentlekele endlwini yendoda yakho esatshatileyo, kuya kuba lula ukumbopha ezinyaweni zakho.
Isithethe kunye namakhandlela ecawa
Ukuba kulo mzekelo ungathetha ngejubane, ngoko impendulo yomnqweno wakho, ukukhawuleza ukutshitshisa umntu otshatileyo kuya kuba yinto enamakhandlela ecawa.
Siqala umkhosi kwenyanga ekhulayo. Ngaphambi kobunzima, kufuneka uthenge amakhandlela angama-40 kunoma yiphi ivenkile. Nge-14 yintsimbi - ixesha lomtshato, qalisa ukuphindaphinda kwikhandlela ngalinye umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu". Xa ugqibile, qhawula zonke ikhandlela ngentambo kunye nokukhanya okuvela kumdlalo omnye. Ngenxa yale njongo, umdlalo omde, umdlalo ungcono.
Thatha i-tray yetsimbi uze ubeke amakhandlela kuyo. Thetha
"Njengoko ezi zikhandle zivuthayo, ngokunjalo uthando lomkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomthandiweyo wam) litshise kum, inceku kaThixo (igama lakho)."
Ngoku thabatha "itotshi" kwikhandlela uze uyicime kwi-wax. Fihla ikhandlela apho zingayi kubonwa ngeso liso. Awufuni abantu bangaphandle ukuba bazi ukuba unomdla wendlela yokutshintshisa indoda eyatshatileyo. Ukongezelela, kunye nokuvezwa kwemfihlelo yesipelo kumntu oya kunciphisa yonke imizamo yobugqirha.
Nsuku zonke, khanyisa ikhandlela elilodwa kulo mzila. Udinga ukutshisa yonke into ibe ngumlotha, kuba i-wax, emva kweentsuku ezingama-40, kufuneka uqoke iphepha elithile kwaye uyibeke phantsi komthi wezityalo.
Ekuboneni kokuqala kunokubonakala ngathi iintsuku ezingamashumi amane zilinde kwaye zibuhlungu. Kodwa ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane beentsapho akuyona into elula, ngaphandle kweentsuku ezingamashumi amane ungatshintsha ingqondo yakho kwaye ulahlekelwe yintando. Ngako oko, uqeqesho olunjalo luya kwenza ukuba ucinge kwaye ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.