Ngokuqhelekileyo ngamaphupha kukho abantu abanexabiso elithile ebomini bethu. Umfanekiso ngamnye unokutolika, oko kuya kuxhomekeka kwezinye iinkcukacha. Ngoku siza kuzama ukufumana ukuba yintoni esikulungisele yona xa umfanekiso womama-mkhwenkwe wangaphambili ebonakala ephupheni.
Kutheni uphupha umkhwekazi wakhe?
Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo liqikelela ukuvela kweengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo eziza kubangela amava amaninzi. Iphupha ekubonayo umama kamama owayengumgula uya kukuxelela ukuba kungekudala esinye sezihlobo okanye abahlobo bakho abasondeleyo banokufuna uncedo, apho ongenakukukhanyela khona. Ukuze ubone umama-mkhwenkwe ngaphambili ephupheni aze axabane naye, ngoko ulindele iingxaki kunye nabo osebenza nabo. Ngeli thuba kuyacetyiswa ukuba igcinwe kwaye ihlaziye, ukuze ungaphuli. Iphupha oye wadibana nayo nomama-mkhwenkwe wakho wokuqala, uxwayisa ukuba kungekudala kwintsapho apho kukho ukuxabana okuhlukeneyo kunye neentlanzi. Ungakhathazeki, kuba yonke into iya kuphelisa kwaye ihlabathi liya kuza.
Enye yeencwadi zephupha inikeza enye ingcaciso yokuphupha malunga nomama kamva. Uthi zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo unokuzinqoba kalula kwaye ekugqibeleni ufumane umvuzo ofanelekileyo. Iphupha, apho umama-mkhwenkwe owayengumama ekunyamekeleni ngexesha lokugula, uqikelele ukufumana uncedo kumntu ongazange ulindele. Iphupha apho umama-mkhwenkwe owayeswele ngaphambili wabonakala kuwe, uthembisa utshintsho olusesikweni kubomi boqobo. Kwanjalo iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuvela kokungaqondani nomlingane. Ukuba isihlobo sangaphambili sasivele ephupheni ngesimo esihle, ngoko kufuneka ulindele iziganeko ezibuhlungu. Xa ephikisana noko, ukukhala kunye nento ephazamisayo, ngokukhawuleza ubuhlobo buya kuvuya . Iphupha apho umama-mkhwenkwe owayengumyeni wakho akuthatha ngandlela-thile, uxwayisa ukuba abantu abasuka kwinqanaba elifutshane baya kukucaphukisa.