Umlingo omhlophe awukwazi ukusetyenziswa kumntu ukulimaza, ngenxa yeempembelelo ezingekho mnyama. Yaye makhe sibone oko kuthethwa ngothando kumatshini omhlophe ngokwenene. Oku akusilo luthando, kodwa luyi-catalysts kuphela. Uqhinga olunjalo alukwazi ukuhlanganiswa nendoda engakuthandiyo. Ngoncedo lwabo, unokongeza umonakalo, iimvakalelo zothando ngethuba xa ulwalamano lufuna ukuphiliswa, kwiimeko ezinzima zesibini, emva kweminyaka emitshatweni.
Yonke inceba yomlingo omhlophe ngothando inentsingiselo yayo engcwele, engenakuphulwa. Ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuthanda imilingo emhlophe yothando, kufuneka uqale ngomthandazo othi "uBawo wethu".
Hlanganisa iingcamango zakho, gxininisa kwisifundo sothando uze uxelele imikhosi ephakamileyo oko ufuna. Khawucinge ukuba sele unayo. Vala amehlo akho ubukele ulonwabo oluqhelekileyo, uthando lwakho, ukuqonda ngokuvisanayo, ubuhlobo bobudlelwane. Ngoku unokuqalisa isiko.
Spell othandweni ngamakhandlela
Olu hlobo lomlingo omhlophe lisetyenziselwa ukuqinisa uthando lomfana, kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba uthembekile kuye. Ngokwesiko , uya kufuna iimakhandlela ezintathu kunye neetrashe emhlophe emhlophe.
Beka ikhandlela etafileni, zikhanyise. Funda isicatshulwa sesalathisi kathathu, kwaye emva kwexesha ngalinye ubeke ikhandlela elinye. Xa uzicima zonke, zibophe ikhandlela kunye nentambo, zikhanyise kwakhona uze uzivumele zitshise.
"Owu, Nkosi Engunaphakade, ndiyathandaza kuwe. Yakha udonga olude, yenze umgodi ojulile, ucingo olungenakunqandwa, unqwenela ukungafuni. Ubunzulu - iintlanzi ezintathu zehlabathi, ukuphakama - ukuphakama okungenakulinganiswa, kunye nokulangazelela ubunzulu obungenakulinganiswa. Vala, Nkosi, kwaye uvimba, ukuze umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) angayi kundishiya, omnye umhlobo andifumananga. Vala kwaye uzithathele wena, uncedo, Nkosi, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Kuze kube lusuku luvulwe, kude kube ngoko umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) akanakuyeka ukundithanda. Isitshixo, ukhiye, ulwimi. Amen. "