Ukudala intsapho entsha, intombazana nganye icinga malunga nendlela yokwakha ubuhlobo kunye nomama wakhe wakhethiweyo. Lo mfazi uya kuhlala echaphazela ubomi bendodana yakhe, kwaye ngenxa yoko, kufuneka afune ukuqhagamshelana naye. Yingakho kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuziphatha nomama wakho nomama wakho-ngomthetho, ukuze kungabikho mbambano kwaye konke kulungile. Phakathi kwabantu kukho inkolelo yokuba umama nomfazi womntu abanako ukuhlala ngokuthula, kodwa ngokwenene, ukwazi izicwangciso ezithile, unxibelelwano lunokumiselwa.
Indlela yokuziphatha kunye noninazala-iingcebiso zeengqondo
Ukuhlalutya kwesi sihloko, iingcali zahlula bonke umama-mkhwenkwe kwiintlobo ezahlukileyo, ezifana nezici zobuntu kunye nezenzo zabo. Ukubhekiselele kwisihlobo sakho esitsha kwisinye okanye esinye isigaba, unokufumana iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuqhuba.
- Inketho yenombolo 1 - umama-mkhwenkwezi "Ucebisi". Ukuba indoda yendoda ingeli qela, ngoko uyathanda ukuphosa iipumlo zayo kuzo zonke iimeko ukuthetha indlela yokusebenza ngokuchanekileyo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Kubalulekile ukubonakalisa nokubonakalisa ngobuqili apha ukuba unokwenza konke kwaye ungahambi kakubi, kwaye mhlawumbi ungcono.
- Inombolo yesi-2 - umama-mkhwenkwe- "Umqhubi". Umfazi onjalo uthanda ukubonisa ukungaphumeleli komalokazana, obonisa ukuba akafanelekanga unyana wakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha lo mpawu lufana nomdlalo owenza kakubi. Indlela yokuziphatha nomamazala? Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ngokuzithobayo onke amagama esihlobo, ukuqonda iimpazamo. Ngaloo ndlela, umalokazana uya kunqanda umama wendoda enomdla wokufumana amandla, kwaye uya kumisa umdlalo wakhe.
- Inketho yenombolo 3 - umama-mkhwenkwe "othakazelisayo". Umfazi onjalo uthetha izinto ezimbi ngomkhwenyana wakhe, kodwa uyamemeza ngamehlo akhe, exelela indlela enenhlanhla ngayo unyana wakhe. Kwimeko enjalo, kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso kunye noninazala kumncinci, kwaye uthetha kangangoko kunokwenzeka
ngokuthobeka, becinga ngegama ngalinye. - Inketho yenombolo 4 - umninazala "umnini". Umama onjalo ufuna ukuhlala ebona unyana wakhe othandekayo kufuphi, omele amncede ukuba ajamelane nazo zonke iingxaki. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi abanjalo baphatha impilo yabo. Siza kuqonda indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle nomamazala. Kule meko, indoda nomfazi kufuneka badibanise nomchasi. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba unomdla kumama ngento ethile, umzekelo, fundela umdlalo .
Ngokuphathelele indlela yokuziphatha nomama-mkhwenkwe kuya kukwazi ukuqonda emva kokuba uqhelane nomntu wokuqala. Qaphela iinkcukacha uze ukhangele ubuso bokuqala. Kubalulekile ukuba wena kwaye ukuba unyana uyonwabile ecaleni kwintombazana, umama akafanele abe neenkcaso.