Cinga ngegama elithi "khuthaza ukuzithemba". Ngokuqhelekileyo, asiyisebenzisi kwabo baqinisekisa ukuba sinokuzithemba. Ngokungafani neenkolelo ezifuna ulwazi oluthe ngqo kunye neziphakamiso ezinengqiqo, isiphakamiso asikhange kwisigqibo somntu, kodwa kwiimvakalelo zakhe, nangokwezinga elithile, intuition. Akunakudinga ukuthetha, abafazi bathambekele ekuphakamisweni kunamadoda.
Igunya lesiphakamiso lisenza sikholwe ngokuzenzekelayo umntu owake wafaka ithemba kuye. Khumbula: abo titshala abasebenzisa igunya, bahambisa iingcamango zabo ngokulula. Abantu ababazi ubugcisa bokuthintela nokukhuphaza kwengqondo, njengomthetho, bangela ukuba singamxelisi. Iingcebiso zingatshintsha umzila wesicatshulwa okanye uhambelana nokuziphatha okuthile.
Iintlobo zengcebiso
Ukucebisa kunoku:
- ngenjongo nangenjongo. Kwimeko yokuqala, umntu ofuna ukukukhuthaza ngombono othile, uhlalisa ngokugqithiseleyo enye yeendlela zokwenza isiphakamiso (kuquka ukukholelwa). Isiphakamiso esingenakuzenzela into esiyifumana rhoqo. Sinika uvuyo lwabanye abantu, kwaye ibinzana lomntu "akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo" inako ukufika endleleni. Umzekelo oqhelekileyo: isiprofeto "sigula", sichazwa ngumama kumntwana oye wafumana inyawo ezimanzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo isifo sisiphumo sesiluleko;
- ngqo kunye ngqo. Isiphakamiso esinqununu, njengomgaqo, sisekelwe kumyalelo okanye kwiilawulwa. Ukungathanga ngqo kuthonya iinjongo zokuziphatha;
- ezintle kunye ezimbi. Isiphakamiso sengqondo sinokuqondiswa kokubili ekuphuhliseni okulungileyo (isibindi, ukukhuthaza, ukuzithemba) kunye nokuziphatha okubi (ukuhaha, ukwesaba, ukungaqiniseki) iimpawu kunye nezenzo.
Ukwazi ukuba, ngandlela-thile, sithobela iingcebiso imihla ngemihla, luncedo ngamanye amaxesha ukucima iingcamango zethu nokuphulaphula iimvakalelo zethu ukwenzela ukuba senze izimo zengqondo ezifanelekileyo.