Kutheni umntwana eshukumisa intsana yakhe?
Isizathu esona sizathu esichazela isizathu sokuba isana somntwana sithuthumele ukungakhangeki kwenkqubo yakhe yemisipha, equlethwe ukungazinzi komsebenzi wamagulane. Esi sizathu sinokuthiwa yi-neurological nature. Nangona kunjalo, zibonelela nge-hormonal cause. Isekelwe ekungagcini kwe-adrenal medulla, ebangela ukuba baphonsa inani elikhulu le-hormone norepinephrine egazini lomntwana. Yingakho umntwana udla ngokukhawuleza.
Icala elihlukileyo xa umntwana ekhalayo kwaye ingqungquthela yakhe igubha. Ngalesi sikhathi, kukho ukuhlutha kwesisipha esiqhelekileyo, esiphumo sogqithiso lwemizimba. Ngomzuzu xa umntwana elele ukukhala, ukukhawuleza kwangoko kwanyamalala.
Ukongezelela kwezi zilapha ngasentla, ezichazela ukuba kutheni umntwana enesithukuthezi, kukho ezinye, enye eyona nto ingundoqo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kubonakala kungalindelekanga, kodwa kubantwana abasanda kuzalwa, phantse yonke into eyenziwa ngumama imihla ngemihla (ukusondeza, ukuhlamba) kuhamba noxinzelelo, kwaye kwakhona:
- isandi;
- ukukhanya okukhanyayo;
- ukunyakaza okukhawulezayo;
- ukuziva ukulamba nokunxanwa.
Naluphi na uhlobo lolu hlobo lunokubangela ukuba umntwana uqala ukugubungela isilwane sakhe.
Xa kukho izizathu zokukhathazeka?
Akukho nto eyoyikisayo kwinto yokuba umntwakho ngezinye izihlandlo uyayigubha. Ukufikelela kwiinyanga ezi-3, ukuthuthumela komhlathi omzantsi kubonakala kwi-60% yabantwana. Ukuba ubudala bomntwana sele sele bufikelela ezintandathu kwiinyanga, kwaye ukuthuthumela akusiyo
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nokugula, ubukho beentlanzi aluhambelani neemeko ezingenasiphelo; isangqa sakhe sithuthumela xa umntwana ezolile. Ukongezelela, phambi kwesi sifo, kungekhona nje izihlunu ezisezantsi emhlathini, kodwa kunye nezihlunu zentloko zibandakanyeka kwintlanzi. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo ulusu elunxantathu lwe-nasolabial luqala ukufumana i-tinge bluish. Yonke le miqondiso ibonisa ukuba kukho ukuhlaselwa kwesifo segazi, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthintana nodokotela.