Ngethuba lokubanda kwebusika, sonke siziva sisidingo esiphuthumayo sokubeka into efudumeleyo kwaye ikhululekile. Kubamantombazana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iimpahla zabo zangaphandle azifudumala kuphela, kodwa nazo zifake imfashini. Ngoku kwinqanaba lokuthandwa yipaki yamabhinqa enomzimba wobushushu kwi-hood. Naliphi na ummeli wesini esilungileyo uya kuxabisa ijeketi ephantsi kwaye akwazi ukudala imifanekiso emininzi yentsuku zonke.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, kuphela abo bantu bathenga kuqala kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo iimpahla zangaphandle zaziyimfuneko kwaye zilungele ukuthenga ipakethi-iigebethi. Ngoku, iingubo ezifanayo zesigqoko sekwindla-ebusika sigqitywa ngamantombazana kunye namadoda eembasa ezahlukeneyo zentlalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ube ngumkhwa, ke kukufanelekile ukuba ipaki ibe noboya kwihood. Kufanelekile ukunikela ngokukhethekileyo kwimiba engokwemvelo, ngaphandle koko umphumo wonke wezinto eziphathekayo ziya kulahleka.
Ngokubanzi, ipaki ithathwa njengezambatho kwisitayela "sempi" kunye "nemidlalo". Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiibhatyi zolu hlobo akukho zakhi zokubhabisa, kunye neyona nto ebonakalayo yinto elula yokuyila. Siyabulela kule mgangatho abafazi befestile bangenza iindidi ezahlukeneyo zeemfono kwaye ngelo xesha baya kugxininisa epakini, kodwa kwiibhuthi, esikhwameni, esikhwameni okanye esikhwameni sokuqala.
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Ipaki yabasetyhini abomvu enebhodi kunye nobomvu - umntu ofanelekileyo kunye nokokugqoka?
Into enje ipakethi yepaki ifanelwe wonke umntu. Kungakhathaliseki ubudala, le nto yokubhinqa ikhona kwi-arsenal yabantwana, abaselula, amantombazana, omama abancinci kunye nabasetyhini. Into eyona nto kukuba kufuneka ukwazi ukuba udibanise ipakikazi yabesifazane kunye noboya kwi-hood. Le yindlela yodwa yokujonga kakuhle kwaye ibe yinkqubo nawuphi na ubudala.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, into ephambili yengubo yokugqoka, emele igubuke ngejacket, ijee. Ukongezelela, ipaki enehood enkulu eyenziwe ngobumnene bobukhulu ihlanganiswe ngokupheleleyo:
- ngeebhulukhwe zesikhumba;
- ngeifutshane kwisitayela esingaqhelekanga;
- kunye neengubo ezincinci kunye nobude;
- iingubo ezikhanyayo;
- kunye neebhotile ezigqithiseleyo ezikwinqaba;
- ngeengqayi zamehlo kunye neebhere.
Ipaki enoboya obukhulu kwi-hood ingaba yinkcazelo yakho yenkcazo ekwindla, ebusika nasekwindwangu ye-spring. Musa ukwesaba intlangano yangaphambili kunye engeyo-standard, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba kwisangqa sakho somthetho we-style.
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