Umkhokeli ongaqhelekanga ngumntu kwiqela elinempembelelo enkulu kwabanye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba liphi na isikhundla. Ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokuthi zibadala, amava, i-charisma, unokuhlonishwa kwiqela. Inkokheli engafanelekanga kwintlangano ingaba neentlobo ezahlukileyo, kwaye ukusuka kuloo nto inokuba yinto entle, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, yingozi.
Inkokheli engaqhelekanga kwikomiti
Inkokeli engafanelekanga, njengomthetho, inomdla okhethekileyo, uyakhangeleka abantu kwaye imele ubuntu bombane. Basondele kuye bafuna ukuba ngenxa yezinye iimpawu zakhe, kutheni impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokuba yinkokeli engaqhelekanga kunzima kunzima. Ubungqina obunkokheli-okanye kukho, okanye akunjalo, ngokwenene, unokuhlakulela ezinye izakhono, kodwa iikhokeli zizalelwa ngokutsha.
Njengomthetho, inkokeli engafanelekanga iyazi indlela yokukholisa abantu-kodwa ngexesha elifanayo oku akusiyo injongo yakhe yokugqibela. Yaye yindlela nje yokuphumeza iinjongo zabo. Kule meko, umntu kufuneka axhase umtsalane omsindo, ugweme ukulawula okuvulekileyo okanye ukugubha.
Umkhokeli ongaqhelekanga ngumzekelo
Ukusebenza kunye neenkokheli ezingaqhelekanga ngezinye iinkqubo kubhekana nemingcipheko emininzi, ke kutheni iinkokeli zifuna ukufumana umntu onjalo. Nantsi umzekelo olula wendlela yokuqonda umntu onjalo:
- ngethuba lentlanganiso emva kweendaba, inxalenye yeqela lijonge ukuba libone indlela ayiphendule ngayo;
- udlalwa rhoqo ukuze anike iingcebiso kunye noncedo;
- Uhlala ehamba egumbini lokubhema nomnye umntu okanye omnye umntu;
- lijikeleze kuye ukuba isangqa senziwa rhoqo, apho kukho ingxoxo.
Kwimizekelo yeempawu nakweyiphi na inkokeli yeqela njengenkokeli ekhokelekileyo, ifundela ngokungaqhelekanga i-informal.
Iintlobo zeenkokheli ezingaqhelekanga
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeenkokheli ezingaqhelekanga, ezinye zazo zisebenzisekile kwiqela, abanye - banokukhathazeka kakhulu. Cinga ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo:
- Inkokheli yemoya. Indoda ezele iingcamango, ngubani owaziyo ukuthetha ngentshiseko nangomdla ngantoni na. Unayo isipho sokukholisa, kodwa ngokugxeka ululahla izandla. Loo mntu ngokuqhelekileyo uyazingca kwaye "ngumntu". Loo mntu uqhutyelwa ngamaphupha kunye neengcamango, ezingasoloko ekulungele ukuqonda okanye nje akwazi ukukwenza.
- Umququzeleli. Umququzeleli uyazi ukwenza izicwangciso, uyazi ukuba ubani omele ahileleke emsebenzini, onikwe uxanduva, obala ixesha elipheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, umntu onjalo unokuba neengxaki ngeengxabano, ukucacisa. Ukuba umntu unengqondo
ikhutshwe kwimeko, ibangela ukuhlukaniswa kwabantu. Nangona kunjalo ukuba iingcamango zomntu onjalo zilungile, akanako ukukwazi ukuzikhohlisa kwabanye abantu. - Umlwabizi. Umntu onjalo ukhetha ngokuchanekileyo amagama kwaye unako ukubonisa ngokupheleleyo nayiphi na ingcinga. Akalokwesaba ukuxabana, kuba uyazi ukuba uhlala echanekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba loo mntu uxabana nabaphathi bakhe kwaye ushiye umsebenzi wakhe, isebe lonke liya kuthathwa. Enyanisweni, umoya wokuguquka awukho nje indlela yokutsala ingqalelo. Ngomntu onjalo onokukwazi ukuphulaphula kunye nobutyebi obudibeneyo.
Enyanisweni, ubunkokheli obungabhalwanga bomntu bunokubonwa kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo: ngenkokeli, oku kungabancedisa kunye nengxaki enkulu, kuba intando yokubambisana iyakwazi ukuphazamisa ubudlelwane obuthile kuphela, kodwa yonke inkqubo yomsebenzi. Yingakho abaphathi abanamava bazama ukukhusela ukubonakala komntu kuloo qela okanye ukulichitha ngexesha.