Okukrakrayo kwimbali yokuqala yokujonga kukunika ukholo kwimimangaliso nokuxolela intliziyo yomntu!
Kwaye konke kwaqala iminyaka engama-40 eyadlulayo, ngoAgasti 1977, xa omnye wabahlengikazi basebhedlela e-Iowa beva ukulila komntwana ebhakeni "inkunkuma" yonyango ...
Melissa Auden
Kwavela ukuba intombazana yayikhala - uMelissa Oden, owasinda emva kokuba umama wakhe oneminyaka engu-19 ubudala eneentsuku ezingama-5 zokukhupha isisu e-hydrochloric ngenyanga yesibhozo ukuze amlondoloze ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo!
Kodwa inyaniso eyoyikisayo yile ibali kukuba unina kaMelissa wayengazi ngoko malunga "nenkqubo engaphumelelanga." Kwaye umntu ocele ukuthula ngo-fetus ebusayo bonke abasebenzi wayengumongikazi wesibhedlele kunye nonina ngenye inxalenye, oko kukuthi, unina kaMalissa!
Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa umntwana ngokuqinisekileyo unamathele kwimizuzu yesibini yobomi, ngenxa yokuba wayezelwe ngokulinganisa ngaphantsi kwe-1 kg, kwaye emva kokuvavanywa kwimizuzu emithandathu kwimizuzu emibini, ukuphefumula kwakunzima kwaye ukuxineka kwakuhlala kuhlushwa!
Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, iingcali zonyango ukuba le ntombazana ayinakukwazi ukubona, ukuva nokulala emva kophuhliso ayiqinisekisi. Kwiiveki ezintathu kamva, uMelissa wadluliselwa kwiwadi, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintathu wamkelwa nguLinda noRon Odena, ababa ngabazali bokwenene abanothando kuye.
Kuyaziwa ngoko ukuba intsapho yaseOden yayisakhula kakade kunye nentombi eyamkelwe uTammy, kwaye xa uMelissa eneminyaka engathandathu ubudala, lo mbhangqwana unomntwana, uDustin, nangona uhlalutyo "olungenasifo"!
Ngudade okhuthazayo uTammy
Ngendlela, uLinda noRon abazange bafihle kuMelissa ukuba wamkelwa, kodwa into yokuba wasinda emva kokukhipha isisu, le ntombazana yafunda ngo-14.
Emva koko le "nyaniso" yathintela kakhulu ingqondo yomntwana osetsheni - uMelissa wavelisa i-bulimia, iingxaki zotywala zaqala, kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, intlungu yakhe yomsindo, wazama ukunyakaza, ukwenza ... ngesondo.
Yaye ukuba le ntombazana iphila ngokukhawuleza, ngoko nje ingonakalisa okwesibini engavumelekanga. Ekupheleni kwesikolo, uMelissa wazibamba kunye waza waba umfundi kwiYunivesithi yaseMzantsi Dakota. Awuyi kukholwa ukuba ngubani, ngokungaqhelekanga okungaqhelekanga, wayefundisa apho ... ugogo owayefuna ukumbulala! Ngaloo Melissa bafunda emva kancinane, kodwa eklasini zabo iindlela azizange zidibanise.
Kulo mfanekiso: UMelissa nomyeni wakhe - uRic-oneminyaka engu-42 ubudala onguchwepheshe we-IT uR
Ngo-19, uMelissa wanquma ukufumana abazali bakhe. Ukususela kuloo mzuzu, ingxelo yobomi bakhe obutsha kwisixeko apho unina wayesebenze ngokukhipha isisu ...
Intombazana iyavuma ukuba ukusebenza kwii-archives zendawo kunye neentengiso kumaphephancwadi kwakuyinkcitho epheleleyo yexesha. Umphumo wokuqala wabonakala emva kweminyaka engama-11 emva koko, xa wakwazi ukufumana idilesi yogogo nomkhulu. Wabhala incwadi kwaye wafumana impendulo evela kumkhulu wakhe. Kwavela ukuba wayengazi malunga nomntwana osaphila, kodwa umfazi wakhe nentombi ixesha elide akanxibelelwano kwaye akazi apho bahlala khona ngoku ...
Kulo mfanekiso: U-Olivia u-Melissa wazala intombi yakhe endala esibhedlele, apho unina wayesebenze isisu!
Kamva kamva, uMelissa wathola idilesi yoyise wakhe ophilayo, wazama ukudibana naye, kodwa akukho nto! Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa ileta eya kuyise yawela ezandleni zentsapho emva kokufa kwakhe. Baye bathi uyise kaMelissa wayekhumbula ukuba wayeziintloni ngento ethile ebomini bakhe. Hayi, kwenzeka ukuba wayesazi malunga nokukhupha isisu kwaye akazange akhusele intombi yakhe - unina kaMelissa. Nangona kunjalo, akazange alinge ukulungisa iphosakelo ngenxa yehlazo, kwaye emva koko kwakusondele kakhulu ...
Ewe, ukutshintsha kwimiba evuyisayo yaqala nendlela umzala womama waseMelissa azalwa ngayo eli bali. Uncede intombazana ukuba ifumane "ukulahlekelwa" kwaye yaxelela ibali lokuzalwa kwakhe. Kwavela ukuba abazali bakaMelissa badibana nekholejini, kwaye baqala ukuthanda uthando. Unina wayengumgijimi, onokungaqhelekanga ukuya esikhathini. Ngamafutshane, phambi kwekota yesithathu, akazange akrokre nantoni na, kwaye phantsi kokulawula kwayo yonke into ithathwe ngumama wakhe (ugogo ka-Melissa). Uvele uyayazi imbali yokukhipha isisu.
Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa nangona emva kokuba uMelissa ethola unina, abazange balinde ukudibanisa ixesha elide kwaye badibana kuphela! Wonke umntu wayeyika ukulahlwa kwaye wayekhathazekile kakhulu!
UMelissa uyavuma ukuba akabibi nonina kwaye wamxolela ngokupheleleyo:
"Kwakukude kunye nobuhlungu obuvela kwintloni kunye nomsindo kuye kokholo nokuxolelwa. Kodwa ndiyaphila ukuba ndihlale ndicaphukile - akusiyo indlela yam. Kwaye kwintliziyo yam kukho indawo yokuxolelwa kukagogo kunye noyise ... "
Ngendlela, namhlanje uMelissa uyavuya emtshatweni kwaye uvelisa abantwana ababini. Kwaye wadibana noodadewabo ababini. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu - uMelissa wadala isiseko apho anceda khona "amaxhoba okukhupha isisu", njengaye. Kwaye wadibana nabantu abangama-223 abasindisiwe!