Kukho imeko xa ulinde ifowuni ixesha elide, kodwa idivaysi ithe cwaka. Kule meko, unokuzisela oko ufunayo kuwe ngoncedo lomlingo . Zonke izithethe zilula kwaye azidingi izakhono ezizodwa, oko kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu uya kukwazi ukujamelana nazo.
Iqhinga lokubiza umnqweno
Kubalulekile ukugcina izandla kwifowuni okanye into edibene nomntu, kwaye uthi la magama:
"Ukukhanya kwam kumnandi, ukukhanya kwam kumnandi, kutheni ndilibale?"
Khangela kum, shayela inombolo yam. "
Indlela yokwenza umntu acele umnxeba
Isithethe esilula sifanelekile kwimeko apho ulwalamano olutshanje alufumani, kwaye ubiza umnxeba. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba iqhinga liza kunceda kuphela ukuba intlanganiso kunye nokutshintshisana kwabafowunelwa kwenzeke kungekudala. Ukuqalisa umcimbi kubakho phakathi kobusuku. Kwitheyibhile isasaza intsimbi ebomvu, kwaye phezu kwalo kufaka ikhandlela elifanayo lombala kwi-saucer okanye kwisibane. Emva koko, faka ifowuni ibhekane nayo. Ukujonga kwifowuni, cinga indlela indoda ekhala ngayo, incoko yakho, njl. Emva koko, kathathu ufunde isiluleko esinjalo esilungileyo obizwa ngokuba ngumntu ofanelekileyo:
"Nayiphi na ilizwi, ndoda, ndifuna ukukuva. Ubibile intliziyo yam, kodwa waphunyelelwa emphefumlweni wam. Ukudayela ngokukhawuleza inombolo yam (sitsho ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza inani leenombolo yakho enye), kuba kubalulekile kum! "
Nge-wax enyibilikiweyo, yehla phezu kwengalo yakho uze uqhube ibhola elincinane kuyo. Ngelo xesha, phinda uphinde ucebe. Gqoka ibhola eceleni kwefowuni, umzekelo, uyibeke kwimeko okanye epokothini yesikhwama. Xa umntu ephuma, ibhola lingasuswa.
Iqhinga lokubiza umntu ofanelekileyo
Ukuba uthanda umntu ixesha elide aliziveleli, ngoko kuyafuneka ukuba amthintele ukuthatha inyathelo eliqinileyo ngoncedo lomlingo. Ukuze wenze isiko, kufuneka uthabise ikhandlela ecaweni kwelinye icala uze ubambe ukuze ilangabi liphumele ngaphandle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, gcina into ehambelana nento yokudumisa, umzekelo, ukukhanya kwayo okanye ifoto. Emva koko, phinda le njongo:
"Ndilala, ndithandaza, kodwa xa ndivuka, ndibhaptizwa. Ngaphantsi kwemibhobho yomhlaba, nangaphezulu kwezilwanyana zasendle. Ilanga kunye neNyanga zivukile, kwaye ndedwa. Ngoko iNkosi makangibusise, kwaye kwishishini lam linceda. Isitshixo. Inqaba. ULwimi. "
Phinda amagama uze ukhanyise ikhandlela. Kubalulekile ukuthetha amagama ngaphandle kokuyeka nokuzaza.