Abantu abaninzi bayaziqhelanisa nomgaqo onjenge-stagnation yokudala kunye nokungabi nalutho kwangaphakathi, xa iingcinga ezintsha kunye neengcinga ezintsha zingabonakali, ukuphefumlelwa kunye neengcamango zilahleka, njengokungathi zihamba. Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni inkathazo yokudala, kutheni iimeko ezinjalo ziphakama nendlela yokujongana nazo.
Ungayinqoba njani ingxaki yokudala?
- Ukuphuhlisa intando . Ubomi bethu buzele uxinzelelo kwaye wonke umntu unengxaki. Ubunzima bobunzima bunokunqumla amaphiko kwaye ngokukhawuleza buhla ezulwini buya emhlabeni. Apha kufuneka usebenze ngokubambana nemingcipheko-kuphela ke uya kuqina kwaye uqhubele phambili.
- Efanelekileyo . Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunokukhokelela ekulahlekelweni komdla. Ungaze uhlale phantsi kunye neengcamango ezingalunganga, isimo sengqondo sokuthi akukho nto iya kuvela. Hlanganisa kwisiphumo esihle kunye nesenzo. Wonke umntu uneendlela zakhe zokuqala ukuqeqeshwa, khetha nayiphi na kwaye uzama nje ukufumana isimo sengqondo esihle.
- Ukuphumla . Umsebenzi mkhulu, kodwa into ephambili akuyikuyidlula. Zama ukufumana ixesha lokuphumla nokuphulukana, ngaphandle koko unobungozi bokulahlekelwa yintliziyo yakho kuphela, kodwa nempilo yakho. Gcwalisa ubomi bakho ngokuzonwabisa kunye nexesha ukulibala ngokukhathalela. Ungalibali ukulala ngexesha elifanayo.
- IiVithamini . Umzimba wethu ufuna amavithamini. Ngokuqhelekileyo uzibheka ngamakarada kwiimifuno neziqhamo, thabatha izongezelelo zokutya okanye ezinye iivithamini. Nsuku zonke, hamba umoya omtsha. Kwaye ke umbuzo wento oyenzayo phantsi kweengxaki zokudala uza kutshabalala ngokwawo.
- Umsebenzi wezobugcisa . Ubuvila bunqoba abantu abaninzi, kodwa kufuneka ulwa nalo. Kuye kwabonakaliswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba ngokungahambi komzimba ukhathala ngakumbi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqeqesha ukuthanda kwakho nokuziphatha. Qala ngomzimba.
- Ukutshintsha . Ukuba kukho ingxaki ebomini bakho enokukhathazeka ngokwenene kwaye inqande intuthuko, yiphinde uyibeke ixesha elithile, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani. Ziqhelisele ixesha elithile lokusombulula le ngxaki uze uqhubeke phambili. Ingqondo yakho iya kuphumla, kwaye isisombululo siya kuza.
- Isizathu . Ungayinqoba njani ingxaki yokudala? Zama ukwenza uluhlu lwempumelelo yakho kunye nezicwangciso ezizayo. Fumana imifanekiso eyokukhuthaza kwaye yenza ukuba uqhubeke phambili. Kwinkqubo yalo msebenzi mhlawumbi
uya kufuna ukwenza. - Ukuzilibazisa . Ukuba ngeli xesha lobubomi bakho kufuneka wenze izinto eziqhelekileyo kunye nezenzo ezizenzekelayo, zama ukuzinciphisa ngokuzonwabisa. Bhalisa kwiiklasi oza kuba nomdla kulo: ukubonakala okutsha kunye nolwazi oluqinisekileyo.
Inkathazo yokudala isifo esiyingozi esinokuhlala iminyaka. Ungavumeli uloyiko lwakho okanye uvila lube ngumqobo kumendo wakho. Musa ukulahlekelwa lixesha elixabisekileyo lobomi bakho.