Bambalwa abantu bayazi ukuba kuphela i-10% yolwazi idluliselwa ngomlomo, ngelixa utyalo kunye nesigama singabonisa intsingiselo engakumbi. Amanani malunga nokunxibelelana ayibalulekile, kodwa kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba isenzo sandla sinendima ebalulekileyo ekunxibelelaneni phakathi kwabantu. Kwaye, ngoko ke, kufuneka uqonde indlela onokulawula ngayo impawu yakho ukuqonda kakuhle.
Kukho uluvo lokuba ukuxubusha ngethuba le ncoko, ingakumbi imizuzwana yokuqala yokuqala, unikeza ithuba lokuvavanya ngokupheleleyo umnxibelelwano. Kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo isenzo asihambelani namagama omntu, i-intuition yakho inika ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuxubusha kwintetho kunokuchaphazela ukuba, nokuba umntu uya kuba mnandi kuwe.
Ngenxa yokugxininisa sixubusha ngombala, ngokwemvakalelo kwaye siqonde nakwamanye amazwe, singayazi ulwimi. I-Gesticulation kwincoko yebhizinisi, nayo idlala indima ebalulekileyo, kuba ngamanye amaxesha kuxhomekeke ekunxibelelaneni okufanelekileyo kwintsebenziswano kunye neyokugqiba kwempumelelo.
Ukuguqulwa kwezandla xa uthetha kumazwe ahlukeneyo akusoloko kunentsingiselo enye. Ngokomzekelo, isangqa esenziwe ngesithupha kunye nesicatshulwa seminwe yaseMelika sithetha imvume okanye imvume ye "ok", ngelixa iFrentshi ithetha i-zero, kwaye amaJapan anemali. EFransi nakumazwe athetha isiRashiya, isicatshulwa somnwe esibandakanyekile kwitempileni sibonisa ukusiyatha, kwaye e-Holland, ngokuchaseneyo, kuthetha ukufumaneka kobunkokheli. Kwaye konke okuthandwa ngumntu okhethekileyo, qaphela, amaGrike aya kubona njengento ehlazo!
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula umzuzu omnye xa umntu esesimo sengqondo esiphezulu, kunzima kakhulu ukuba akwazi ukuphawula ngaphandle kwazo zonke iintlobo zendlela yokuziphatha-izigulane, kwaye le gesticulation esebenzayo inokuthetha ngokubanzi malunga nenjongo yomntu osisigxina somntu.
Kwangexesha elide, izazi zeengqondo ziye zafunda i-gesticulation yabantu, kuba indlela yokubamba ingabonakalisa abantu, kodwa ukuze bafunde ukufunda "abanye", kukho iincwadi ezininzi kunye neminye imithombo yazo zonke iintlobo.
Imigaqo yeelwimi yezandla
Abaninzi banomdla kwimbono yolawulo lwe-gesticulation, kodwa kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba zikhona. Enyanisweni, kukho imigaqo elandelayo:
- Ngaphantsi kweemeko, kwaye ngaphantsi kweemeko akukho nto.
- Lawula izandla kunye neenyawo zakho.
- Kwakhona, qwa lasela izandla. Qeqesha ukugcina izandla zakho zihlala zihlala kwindawo enye kwaye zizisa ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Gwema izinto ezimbi.
- Khangela amehlo omnxibelelwano. Ukuya kumlingo wokuqhagamshelana naye uyakwazi ukugqithisa yonke intleko yencoko.
- Ukubambisana ngokukhawuleza. Akufanele kube lula okanye kulukhuni, kodwa unamandla kwaye ucacise.
Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo kuya kunceda kakhulu ukuba wenze umxhwele kwabanye kwaye ufezekise iinjongo zakho.
Ungakulibali ukuba iziphakamiso ezikhethiweyo zokunxibelelana okungabinxibelelwano ziyakwazi kwizinga elingenasicatshulwa ukuba ubeke umnxibelelwano wakho.