Uqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino lulona luhlobo olunzulu kakhulu lwezonxibelelwano zabantu, kuba iimfuno zoshishino zihlala zifakwa ngaphezu kwezinto ezikhethwa ngumntu (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, iingxoxo zoshishino ziqhutywe ngugqwesileyo).
Ngexesha loqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iifom kunye neentlobo, kukho ukutshintshiselwa kolwazi, amava, iziphakamiso phakathi kwabadibaniselwano. Ekubeni iinjongo eziphambili zicacile - iingenelo zecandelo ngalinye, ngoko siza kuthetha ngezinye iinkalo, nokuba zihlala emthunzini, zihlala zidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwihlabathi lezo shishino.
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Uqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino kufuneka lukhokelela kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo, ukuba oko kwenzeka. Into ebaluleke kakhulu, ngokwemibono, ayiyi kuphazamisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabalingani, kwaye kwakhona ukwenza impembelelo enhle kakhulu kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwingxoxo. Oku kufanele kube yinto ephambili ebantwini bombono.
Ingxoxo
Ingxoxo, njengendlela yoqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino, ngokuqinisekileyo ithatha isikhundla esiphambili ekubalukeleni kwesiphumo selo daba. Iingxoxo ziyahlula zibe:
- uxoxisana ngqo kunye namagunya aphezulu;
- iingxoxo ezinqamlekileyo ngaphakathi kwenkampani;
- engagunyaziswanga - okanye emva kweeyure;
- nqanaba eliphezulu kukuthintana phakathi kweenkokheli zabathathi-nxaxheba;
- Itheyibhile eyongeziweyo - iingxoxo kumaqela asebenzayo, iikomishoni ezizodwa.
Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, ukuqhuba kakuhle kweengxoxo, akwanele ukwazi i-theory, iifom kunye neentlobo zentengiso yonxibelelwano. Kwiingxoxo zomlomo, ngokungafani neenkcukacha okanye iingxoxo ezingathanga ngqo, umntu kufuneka abe neempawu zezona zithethi ezifanelekileyo, ukuze emva kwentetho yakho, umchasi akanakho imibuzo.
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Incoko njengendlela yoqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino yindlela eqhelekileyo, engaqhelekanga kwaye isetyenziswe ngokubanzi ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umntu unxibelelwano lobulungisa. Ingcamango yengxoxo yoshishino inkulu - kukuthi, ngokukodwa, nayiphi na inxibelelwano yomlomo phakathi kwabantu abagunyazisiweyo, eyenziwa ukuphumeza izisombululo eziqhelekileyo.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ekuhambeni kwengxoxo kukuqala kwayo, kuba ababenxibelelana nabo bayazi zonke izinto abafuna ukuthetha ngazo, kodwa indlela yokuqhuba ngesihloko ngokuhlakanipha nangendlela esifike ngexesha, ukudala umoya ococekileyo wokulula, kungekhona wonke umntu owaziyo. Ngenxa yoko, ubuncinane, umntu kufuneka abe ngumbono wezengqondo, kwaye uqonde ukuba ngubani odibanisa naye kunye nokuba ungubani. Ngaphandle koko, unako "u-doshutitsya" kwinqanaba lokuba ityala liza kufaka i-kulaks ngengozi.
Ingxoxo
Ingxoxo njengendlela yoqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino luhlobo lweengxoxo ezidibeneyo zomsebenzi obufunyenweyo, ngokuthelekisa izinto ezahlukeneyo zokujonga. Isiphumo kunye nesiphumo salo naluphi na ingxoxo kufuneka sibe isigqibo.
Kuzo zonke iinjongo eziphambili zoqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino, ingxoxo ininzi kakhulu, kuba ngenxa yokunyuka kwengqondo, ukuhamba kweengxoxo akupheli kuze kube sekupheleni.
Abathathi-nxaxheba kwingxoxo mabawubambe umgangatho oqhelekileyo owamkelekileyo wehlabathi wengxoxo, oko kukuthi:
- musa ukuthetha ixesha elide kwaye kaninzi;
- ukuphazamisa abadibaniselwano;
- ihlonipha bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwingxoxo;
- Musa ukugxeka abaphenduli bakho.
Ulwakhiwo olunolwazi lweengxoxo yindlela yokwenza izinto ezintle kunye nokungahambi kakuhle, yile ndlela yokubhenela ekhokelela kwisisombululo esiyimpumelelo yomcimbi.
Umkhangeli ophezulu woqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino alukho kwisethi yamagama engafihlekanga kumntu oqhelekileyo, kodwa ngobuqili kunye nentlonipho, okufuneka ivela kuyo yonke ibinzana elithethileyo. Ingcambu yegama elithi "ishishini" yile shishini, kwaye ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukujongana nomnxibelelwano wakho, ukuba ufuna ukunyanzela kuye umnqweno ofanayo, ukuthetha kwakho kufuneka kusekelwe ekuvelaneni (nangaphandle), ekuqondeni nasekuvunyelaneni. Emva kwakho konke, uqhagamshelwano lwezentengiselwano - njengomdaniso, ukuba iqabane lihamba kwiinyawo zeqabane, lingakufanelekanga omnye wabo, kodwa kunye naye.