Isipho kwinkwenkwe iminyaka engama-2

Umntu oneminyaka emibili sele sele eselungileyo, kuba sele sele ekhetha izinto, imikhwa kunye nobuthathaka. Ukukhetha isipho kwinkwenkwe iminyaka engama-2 kunokuba nzima, nangona unyaka odlulileyo unokuzisa i-rattle kunye nethemba lokufumana ulonwabo ngokupheleleyo kwiimvuthu.

Isipho somfana oneminyaka emi-2 kufuneka sikhethwe kwimeko yokukhusela kunye nokusebenza, kodwa nakunoma yiphi indlela ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga "ukukhula", kuba kusenokwenzeka kakhulu ukuthenga abathengi ngamacandelo amancinci, kwaye izilwanyana eziqhelekileyo ziba yingozi. Ngethuba elifanayo, ngeli xesha, abantwana bebanomdla kakhulu ukufana noMama noTata, phinda zonke izenzo ezungeze abantu, zama ukumazi ihlabathi. Le mfanelo ingasetyenziselwa iinjongo zakho xa uthenge isipho somntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala.

Isipho kumfana oneminyaka emi-2: yintoni ongayikhetha?

Ngoko, noluhlu lwezipho ezifanelekileyo kumfana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala:

1. Umatshini. Ngokuqinisekileyo umqhubi wexesha elizayo akayikukhathalela nayiphi na imizekelo kunye neentlobo zeemoto zokudlala kunye nezithuthuthu, ngoko ke, ukuba uthengayo inkwenkwezi eneminyaka emi-2 njengesipho somzekelo omhle okanye imoto ekuqhubeni imoto, unokwenene uyayithanda yonke imini.
2. Isethi yezixhobo. Izixhobo ezikhethekileyo zokulungiswa (ngesinyundo, izikhonkwane, izitshixo), ukuze imidlalo kumakhi ikhuselekile, ingenayo iincinci ezincinci. Kumele zenziwe ngeplastiki esemgangathweni okanye kumthi.
3. Vimba umakhi. Abo baqulunqi kufuneka babe neenxalenye ezinkulu kunye neengqungquthela ezijikeleziweyo. Ukuba ngumntu omdala, umntwana uya kuzifumanisa ngokwakhe umyili wezinto ezivela kwicala elitsha, imihla ngemihla yokumisa iinqwelo, iimoto, izitulo zomlilo kunye neendlela ezivela kwiindawo ezifanayo. Ukuba neetekethi ezininzi, kunye nexesha elincinci lingakha umzi wabantwana bokwenene kwigumbi lakhe.
4. UMoses weenkcukacha ezithambileyo ezintathu. Kufuneka ube ngumgangatho oqaqambileyo kwaye onzima. Abantwana bathanda ukuqokelela kwiinkcukacha zonke izinto eziyinto emnandi, ngokukodwa xa abazali babo banceda kule nto.
5. Intente. Inkwenkwe sele isilwela indawo yendawo, kwaye intente iya kuba yinto enokuzikhethela. Kuyo, i-crumb izakudlala, igcine impahla kunye nezinto zokudlala.
6. Incwadi. Abantwana abancinci bathanda iincwadi ezinomdla, ezinomdla. Kuzo kufuneka uthenge iincwadi ezinobumba obukhuni, okugqwesileyo kubo bonke ngamaphepha alense. Ukususela kwiincwadi bayakwazi ukufunda ihlabathi elijikelezile, amagama wezinto kunye neepropati zabo. Esinye sezipho ezithandekayo ziza kuba yincwadi yeenganekwane malunga nomntwana, apho kuya kubakho ibali ngaye, zonke izihlobo zakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ziya kubhala iimifanekiso zakhe ezifakwe kwikhompyutheni. Inkwenkwe iya kuba yiqhawe leendaba ezinomdla kakhulu zanamhlanje.
7. Ukuphuhlisa amathoyizi avumela ukuba ufunde izakhono ezintsha ezibalulekileyo.

Isipho somntwana weminyaka emi-2: indlela engcono yokunikela ngayo?

Ukwenza isipho kumntwana, okanye kunokuba umfana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ukhumbuleka, kufuneka uyive ngokuchanekileyo nangendlela yokuqala. Ingane inokuyichitha isipho ngokwayo, ngoko ke umntu unokuyipakisha kwiibhokisi eziliqela (ezingekho ngaphezu kwethathu), kwaye uvule isipho kunye, emva kokulungiselela inkwenkwe yokuzalwa ngenxa yokuba into enomdla ifihliwe kwiibhokisi. Unokukhawuleza ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo somntwana, ukuba ufihla into yokudlala ekhaya okanye kwintsimi, uze ucele umgca ukuba uyifumane.

Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bayayithanda abantwana babo ngezipho zepropati ehlukileyo. Ngokomzekelo, bahlela iiholide zezingane ezinkulu ngokubandakanyeka kwamacandelo okudala abakhethiweyo, abadlali, ama-clowns. Le ngcamango enhle, kodwa inkwenkwe eneminyaka emibini ingasayi kuza, njengoko imisebenzi enomsindo kunye nexesha elide inokumkhathaza, kungcono ukuhlehlisa isiganeko esinjalo kuze kube seminyaka engama-4-5.