Zingaphi iimeko ezibonakalayo kwaye eziyimfuneko, ukusuka kwimbono yowesifazane, isipho asenzi nto kumyeni wakhe nhlobo. Ukongeza, ngokuthe ngcembe uludwe lwezinto ezincedo kunye nezinto ezinomsebenzi ophelileyo, kwaye andifuni ukuphinda ndiphinda ndibuyele kuMnyaka omtsha okanye umhla wam wokuzalwa . Ngoko abafazi bethu babandezeleka ngethuba lokuza kutsho xa befuna into engavamile. Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela isiphi isipho sokuqala ukuza kumyeni wakhe, ukuze umkholise kwaye ufezeke kuye, ekugqibeleni, ukucatshulwa okunjalo.
Khetha isipho sokuqala kumyeni wakhe kwisiganeko
Sidinga ukuzolalisa abafazi bethu - emva koko, amadoda awanjengezinto ezikhethiweyo njengabasetyhini, kwaye abaqhathananga ukuba bajonge iingcamango ezifihliweyo kumbonisi. Ngoko ke, kuya kuba lula ukukholisa kubo, umzekelo, umhlobo othandekayo. Kakade into yokuba umfazi wakhe wayekhathazekile kwaye wayichitha ixesha elininzi ukukhangela into ebalulekileyo uya kuzisa umnandi.
Kungenzeka ukuba ungagcini nakweyiphi into ethile, ukwenza isipho sakho kanye ngexesha elivela kwizinto eziliqela-iisethi zeepenki eziphathekayo, iiglasi, isilondolozi sezindlu zangasese, i-souvenir chess. Ibhokisi elikhulu elinjalo "hodgepodge" liya kubangela ukuzonwabisa kwangempela kunye nomnini wayo. Kodwa abathandi be-needlework kule ngxaki banokulula, kuba banokuthi baname okanye badibanise inqabana elifudumeleyo, i-sweater okanye iisokisi eziza kukufudumala umthandayo kwiqanda elibandayo.
Isipho sokuqala kumyeni wakhe asiyinto engacatshulwayo kwaye kaninzi into engadingekile ekhaya. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho liyakuthanda into okanye amaphupha iminyaka emininzi ukuthenga incwadi enqabileyo kakhulu, intlanzi okanye uphawu, kodwa ixabiso layo lihlala likhupha umntu kwi-counter. Musa ukuwugcina imali yokufumana loo nto, makube wena ngokwakho
Ungakulibali ukuba umphumo onqwenelekayo ungabangelwa nje kuphela ngoku, kodwa nangendlela yokunika umyeni wakho isipho ekuqaleni. Unokwenza umyalelo kwibhokisi lakho kunye nenqaku elinikezwe ngumsebenzi ngeposi. Abahlobo bakho abathandekayo baya kumangaliswa yinkathalo enika ngayo intanda yakho. Enye inketho kukudala umendo ukusuka kwiintliziyo eziveziweyo ekuqaleni kwentsasa ukuya etafileni okanye kwenye indawo apho ukupakishwa ngothuso kuya kufakwa. Ukuba imali ivumela, ke uhlele umboniso wangempela, ulawule amathikithi eminye imicimbi enkulu, kwisiphelo apho uya kufaka isipho sakho sokuqala kumyeni wakhe kwisiganeko.