Akukho mntu uyazama ukuphikisana nenyaniso yokuba onke amabhinqa amaphupha akhangelekile, athengisekayo kwaye anamhlanje. Nangona kunjalo, oku akukwenzeka kumntu wonke. Ngelishwa, ngoku kunzima ukukhetha iimpahla zowesifazana ezithandwayo, ngoko kungabonakali nje kukuhle, kodwa kungabonakalisa ukungaphumeleli kwaye kugxininise isidima salo mfanekiso.
Kodwa kukho ukungafani nemithetho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakufuneka udibane nabasetyhini, phantsi kwazo zonke iimeko, baphatha ukubonakala begqibeleleyo, banako ukukhetha iimpahla ezifanelekileyo kunye nokudibanisa, ekubonweni kokuqala, izinto ezihambelanayo. Abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba baqhuba njani ukwenza oku? Enyanisweni, yonke into ayinzima kangako njengoko kubonakala kuqala. Ukukunceda uza kuza izambatho zododa eziphathekayo eziphathekayo, ezenzelwe ngabaqulunqi abaziwayo. Ngoko unako ukuthabatha ingubo yakho nayiphi na isiganeko esizayo esiya kumoya kunye namathuba emali.
Ukuba ufuna ukukhangela ubuncinci, qaphela yonke imicimbi yefashoni, oko kukuthi, yintoni eyona nto ingayinxiba namhlanje, kwaye yintoni engcono ukuyiyeka emva kwexesha elihle. Oku kuya kunceda bobabini amava kunye nolwazi lwabaqeqeshi. Imveliso yefashini enhle ikhona, kwaye phakathi kwenkqubo yokuyila ungakhetha umzekelo oza kugxininisa ubuntu bakho.
Ukududuza kunye nokusebenza - imeko efunekayo
Musa ukulibala ukuba izambatho naziphi na iimeko kufuneka zikhulule kwaye zisebenzise. Awunelanga nje ukubheka enkulu, kodwa ungazivumi. Oku kuyinyaniso ngokukhethekileyo kwiimpahla zowesifazana abathandwayo kwiofisi. Umfanekiso ongenalulungeleko wentombikazi yebhizinisi inokuphangaza i-skirt okanye i-top top. Ingundoqo yeengubo zetekisi ayifumanekanga kuphela ekuthengeni kwayo, kodwa kwakhona ekukwazi ukuyisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Imodeli yanamhlanje isekelwe kwenkalipho nokuzama. Ngoko ungesabi ukuzisebenzisa ezi zinto. Yenza idibaniso ehlukeneyo yeengubo zomntu ongeke ukwazi ukuzibeka ngaphambili. Ewe, kulo mzekelo awukho isidingo sokugqithisa kwaye uzenzele into yokuqala eya kuwela phantsi kwezandla zakho. Ngomfanekiso ohambelana nesisidembile, ungakulibali ukuqwalasela iimpawu zomzimba wakho. Olwazi olunjalo luyakunceda ukuba ubukeka kakuhle emehlweni abantu. Kwakhona kufuneka ubeke iliso kwesikimu sombala, ugqoke ngemibala oya kuyo. Kuya kuba yinto engafanelekiyo ukufumana izinto ezimbalwa "ngeepppercorns", zikhuphe ngakumbi kwaye zizingcolileyo. Ingaba ingubo emnyama emnyama kunye nentambo evulekileyo, emele ibe yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yengubo ye-wardrobe nayiphi na i-fashionista.
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Umfanekiso wesitayela
Ukuba unamathela kumbono wendabuko ebomini, ngoko unokuzikhethela ngokukhuselekileyo izambatho zabasetyhini abangaphantsi. Ezi zinto zinemibala emibini yokusika kunye nemibala yendabuko-emhlophe, emnyama, emdaka nangomdaka. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba umfanekiso owenziwe uya kuba mnxantathu kunye nohlobo olufanayo. Ukuzisa intsimbi kwisitayela somsebenzi, sinciphise kunye nezixhobo kunye nemihlobiso yembala ebanzi.
Ukuqwalasela iimpahla zentombi zabasetyhini abantu abancinci, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kukho ukukhethwa okukhulu kwemifanekiso, izitayela, imibala kunye nezinto ezisetyenziswayo. Abantu abancinci, njengokuba kungekho mntu ulandela ifashoni, ngoko le nkalo yobudala yintsimi ebalulekileyo kuyo nayiphi na umyili. Musa ukukhangela umgangatho, ukuba ufuna into yakho ihlale ixesha elide kunokwenzeka. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukhumbule ukuba iimpahla eziphathekayo ziphuma ngexesha, ngokokuba kunanini na ubudala, ukugqoka isitayela kunye nemfashini, ungabuyela iminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo.
Ngokuqala kwimozulu ebanda, izambatho zowesetyhini ziba zibalulekileyo ekwindla nasebusika. Kule meko, ukusetyenziswa kwemibala eqaqambileyo kunye nezixazululo ezintle zilungele ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili, ngenxa yokuba uncedo lweempahla eziqhayisayo unokuzenza iimoya zasehlotyeni imihla ngemihla, nokuba unxibe ijeyiti okanye ibhatyi.
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