Yonke intokazi ehlabathini (engazi nakwi-ageergarten age) amaphupha awayeza kuthandwa ngumntu oyinyani. Yaye xa ixesha lokuzalisa umnqweno liza, abafazi "baqiqa nge-daisy": bathanda-abayithandi, kholwa-anikholelwa ...
Kufihliwe kwaye kuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo zabantu, uthando kunye nento enkulu kangaka! Oomama abathandekayo, zama ukuyiqonda. Kodwa kunjalo, zeziphi iinkonzo ezikhethekileyo onokuzibona umntu othandwayo, kodwa kodwa engazange adibanise no-Lovelace?
Iimpawu zothando lomntu
Okokuqala, phawula ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kumfazi othandekayo kuyatshintsha kakhulu, kwaye abaninzi abantu bangaphandle bakufumana (ukuziphatha). Kule ndlela zonke iindlela zokukhohlisa! Ukuqala ngokuqwalasela okwandisiweyo nokuphelisa izenzo ezinyanyekayo. Xa ulutsha luyinto elula kakhulu - imvakalelo "nje intonga" yangaphandle, ngoko iimpawu zothando lomfana intombazana zingabonwa ngeso iso. Imiqumbo epakini kwibhentshini, imiyalezo yefowuni engapheliyo, iimathoyizi ezithambileyo njengesipho imihla ngemihla - yonke le miqondiso ibonisa uthando lomfana. Ukuba intombazana ithandana nomfana, bonke abahlobo bakhe baya kukwazi malunga nayo, uya kuhlala ethetha ngeendlela ezimangalisayo kwaye eziyingqayizivele. Bonke abathandi abancinci bayaxhamla! Mhlawumbi ke, ukuba umhlobo wakho usele iveki yakhe yesibini engenayo imizwelo kwaye engalali ebusuku, uyazi-lo ngumqondiso wokuqala wokuthandabuza, oko kukuthi, umfana akafumananga iimvakalelo.
Amadoda athile avuthiweyo kwimicimbi yothando abanamava kunye nolumke. Ukumemeza kwikona nganye ngothando lwabo, abayi kuyenza, kodwa utolo luka-Amurchik entliziyweni luya kuthintela indlela yokuziphatha komntu.
Esinye sezibonakaliso eziphambili zothando lomntu kwintombazana kukukhangwa ngesondo. Musa nje ukudibanisa oku kukhangeka nge-instinct elula. Kwimeko yokuthandana, umntu uhlala ecinga indlela enentanda yakhe endiyintanda ngayo, ukuba uyamkholisa njani. Oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba ukukhwabelana ngesondo kwinto yokudumisa kukubalulekileyo, nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kubonakalisa uthando. Yonke into incike kumntu, kunoko ngohlobo lwentliziyo yakhe, izinga lokuzithemba. Mhlawumbi ekuqaleni, uya kuthanda ukuba kufuphi kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, unike uncedo nenkxaso.
Masiqeshwe iimpawu ezili-10 eziphambili zomntu othandwayo:
- Kulo mzuzu kunomfazi omnye kuphela emhlabeni - othandekayo.
- Ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi, okanye mhlawumbi phantse yonke ixesha lakhe elikhululekile elingaphantsi komfazi wamaphupha akhe.
- Ufuna ukumkholisa. Ngenxa yoko, umntu ulungele ukuguqula ngokupheleleyo umfanekiso wakhe, ulandele ukubonakala kwakhe, indlela yokuziphatha, imikhwa.
- Indoda iyayinyamekela isifundo sayo. Umthandi wenza iinzame ezininzi zokuphucula ubomi bakhe abathandekayo, uzama ukusombulula iingxaki zakhe.
- Uqala ukucinga malunga nekamva elizayo. Iingcamango ezinjalo zivame ukunyusa umntu ekukhuleni komsebenzi, ukukhangela amathuba angaphezulu ezemali.
- Umfazi othandekayo uthatha phantse zonke iingcamango zabantu. Ucinga ngalo kunye nokuphazamiseka komsebenzi kunye nokuthula ekhaya.
- Kuba indoda ibalulekile ukuba abahlobo bayayixabisa njani wakhethayo. Uhlala ebatshela ngento enhle ngayo, enhle kwaye enobuchule ...
- Indoda ethandekayo ivuyela ummandla wayo ngenjabulo. Umnqweno wokuhlala ekhaya wedwa, ukuhlala "kwikhompyutheni" uhlala emva. Kwakhona endlwini yakhe ibonakala ezinye zezinto zakhe - i-toothbrush, i-dryer eyinwele (enye imeko engamkelekanga).
- Ngenxa yowesifazane, indoda ingashiya izinto ezithandwayo, izinto ezithandwayo, ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo.
- Indoda ethandwayo, isoloko iphakamisa umoya, "utshise" amehlo akhe. Uvakalelwa kukuba ngumntu onoyolo!
Ukungabikho kweminye impawu akuthethi ukungabikho komntu onothando, ngenxa yokuba umntu unokuthobeka okanye ugxile kwiimpawu ezibalulekileyo. Umzekelo, mhlawumbi akayinikeli intombazana imihla ngemihla kwaye ayichithe ixesha kunye naye, kodwa
Iimpawu zintle kunezigidi zamagama ... Ukuba umfazi unomdla ngokwenene kumntu othandana naye, okokuqala kukufanele ukujongwa ngokufutshane kwizinto ezincinane ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Izazinzulu ziye zazimisela ukuba ulwimi lomzimba alukwazi ukuthetha amanga, ngoko ke izibonakaliso ezingabonakaliyo ziya kucaca ngokucacileyo ngothando lomntu kumfazi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uyayibhala ngokucacileyo ibhinqa ebusweni babanye, kodwa ngokusoloko enethuba lokuzama ukusondeza kuye, mhlawumbi u-Amur wasebenza apha. Kodwa ke, phulaphula intliziyo yakho kwaye unamathele abanye - ngokukhawuleza umntu othile uninzi lweenyanga ulinde ubuncinane ukuvumelanisa isivumelwano sokubuyisela iimvakalelo.