Ukuvakalelwa yedwa

Isiva sobude ngamaxesha onke sasingxaki enkulu ebantwini. Abantu abajongene nokungahambi kakuhle kwezinto eziyinyani, bazibonele uluncedo kungekhona njengentsikelelo ebusisiwe, kodwa njengentlungu enkulu.

Uhlala unesizungu

Ukuphazamiseka kwesizungu kubangelwa kukuba abantu abakhonkxelayo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba bangabikho, abavumi, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, bahlala bejikelezwe luluntu. Le yingxaki yamadolophu kunye namagcities, kodwa kungekhona iidolophana kunye nemizana. Ukongezelela, ivakalelo zelungu zivutha abantu abatsha abangenalo umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa okanye umsebenzi odla ixesha. Abantu basebenzayo, kunye nabantu abadala, abanakuncitshiswa kakhulu ukukhalaza. Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, ukuzinyamezela abaninzi kunomnqweno wokutsala ingqalelo yoluntu kumntu wakho.

Kubantu abaninzi, isizungu asaziwa ngesizathu esilula: sisebenza kwaye sinovuyo, sithande ukwandisa imo yazo kwaye sibonise umdla kubantu, kusekwa oonxibelelwano abatsha. Abo bajwayele ukuhlaliswa, baninzi badla ubomi kuye, kuba ngaphandle kokufumana ingqalelo kubantu abathile, bayazibona bodwa, bengenakufuna ukwandisa ii-horizons zonxibelelwano. Abanye abantu, bengayazi, sebenzisa intetho ngokulondeka njengento yokusetyenziswa ekhaya: ukukhalaza ngomntu malunga nemeko yabo, umntu unxusa ukunceda.

Indlela yokukrazula iimvakalelo zodwa?

Kwabaninzi, kulula ukugxotha ngokuzenzele intlungu kunokuba uthathe ukusekwa kobomi nokuseka oonxibelelwano kunye nehlabathi langaphandle. Ukuqhubela phambili kulo, kumbuzo wendlela yokujongana nomntu onesizungu, ukhetho olulodwa kukuthatha isenzo!

Ngokuvakalayo ukuziva unesizungu kubangele abantu abanamaxesha amaninzi ngaphandle kokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa. Ngaloo ndlela, isisombululo kwingxaki "yendlela yokunqoba ngayo ukuvalelwa yedwa" kubo balala kwiimfundo okanye ngeenkonzo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo umbuzo wendlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo uluncedo, izisombululo ezilula kakhulu zihambelana:

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuthatha indawo yokusebenza ngokusisigxina nokuxazulula iingxaki zakho, kunokuba uziphathe nje. Ukuba awunabo abahlobo abaneleyo - fumana ikhosi okanye iiklasi, enoba zibaninzi abafana nabo. Ukuba unalo uthando olwaneleyo - qhelana nazo zonke iindlela, kubandakanywa kwi-line.