Kususela kwixesha elide elidlulileyo, amaphupha ayebhekwa njengengxaki yexesha elizayo. Inzala kumaphupha iye yasinda nanamhla. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi zokuphupha, umzekelo, incwadi yephupha likaFreud, uVanga, Miller, Juno, njl. Kwaye ezininzi zazo zabhalwa ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwethu, ipeni labantu abaninzi, ngoko kuqinisekiswa kwabo, awuyikungabaza. Ukuze ufumane oko uphuphayo, kuyadingeka ukuba uhlambele amanqaku aphambili, kwaye uqale kubo.
Ziziphi iphupha ezenzelwe uthando?
Imiba enzima kakhulu kule ndawo yimixholo yothando. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye wethu unomdla ukwazi iphi iphupha lonwabo kuluthando. Ngoko ke, eziqhelekileyo:
- emnyango;
- u kumanga;
- isidleke;
- entwasahlobo;
- izilwanyana (ingwenya, umvundla, isorkork, ihlengethwa);
- izimbali zeentyantyambo (iilly, sunflower, roses).
Ngoku uchaza ezinye zezi zinto zingentla. Ukuba uyaphupha malunga nomnyango, ngoko uyazi, uthando seluvele lukhona emnyango, lindela abantu abatsha, abanomdla. Musa ukuvuma ukubaluleka kwamaphupha aphi na amaphupha othando, kunye nezilwanyana. Ngoko, umzekelo, iingonyama ziya kukunika ubudlelwane obutsha, iidonphins - umtshato oqinileyo, i-storks - umtshato ovuyayo, kunye nomvundla omhlophe uya kukunika ukunyaniseka.
Ibhere limelela ubudlelwane obude kunye obuqinileyo, kodwa ukuba umthandi wakho ekumanga ephupheni, ke oku kukuphawu lokungcatshiswa kwakhe. Ngaloo nto, ukuba uyamanga - ngoko uthando olufanayo alukwazi ukuphetshwa. Umhlambi weengcuka okanye inyoka ibonisa umtshato. Kwakhona uphawu oluhle kakhulu lokuba amaphupha othando olukhawulezileyo isidleke esibonwa ngephupha libonakalisa ulonwabo lwentsapho, ngokuqinisekileyo luya kuzisa ulonwabo ngothando, umtshato wokuqala kunye nokongeza kwintsapho. Ukuba ubusika okanye impompo amaphupha okuza kwentwasahlobo-lo luhlobo olungalindelekanga. Kodwa ingxabano ephupheni inokuqikelela ukuba iintlanganiso ezizayo. Ukutya ishokoleta kunye neesekese kwiphupha kuya kukhokelela ekuthandeni izilwanyana, amaqebelengwane, ngokuchaseneyo - ukukhohlisa okanye ukukhohlisa .