Kunzima ukufumana umntu ofumana iimvakalelo ezintle ngokujonga iimbungu. Ngako oko, amaphupha alezi zidalwa zidla ngokudibanisa neendlongo. Musa ukuthukuthela kwangaphambili, njengokuba kubakho abadlali abathandekayo ngokuchaseneyo, banentsingiselo efanelekileyo.
Kutheni sifuna ngeempompo?
Iphupha omba ngayo izibungu liya kukuxelela ukuba unako ukuzithoba ngokwakho kunye neyona nto ingenakunceda. UDreambook uncoma, nangona kunjalo, qaphela ukuba ungadlala kakhulu. Ukubona iimbungu ehlabathini kuthetha ukuba ebomini bobubomi unendawo yokuqala yokuzanelisa iimfuno ezisisiseko, umzekelo, ukutya ngokumnandi, ukulungisa, ukuthenga iimpahla ezintsha, njl njl.
Ukuba ubulala iimpethu kuyisayinwe esihle esiza kukuxelela ukuba ungayikhupha imithwalo kwaye ufikelele ekufuneni ngaphandle kweengxaki. Kungekudala uza kuphinda ucamngce ngeempawu zobomi bakho nezinto eziphambili. Iimbongolo ezincinane zifanekisela inkxwaleko kunye neengxaki. Iphupha apho ubona izibungu ezide ziyisilumkiso sokuba unokubandezeleka ngeentlebo kunye namahemuhemu. Ngeli xesha kunconywa ukuba uzinqande ukwenzela ukuba unganiki isizathu esongezelelweyo. Inani elikhulu leebungu liwuphawu lobukho belizwe elixinezelekileyo. Oku kuya kunxulumana neemvakalelo malunga nekamva okanye ukunganeliseki ngokubonakala kwazo.
Kutheni sifuna iphupha ngeebhokhwe ezimhlophe?
Ukutshatyalaliswa kombala omhlophe kukubonakalisa oko kwimeko engqongileyo kukho umntu ongeke athembeke, njengokuba unokulimaza kakhulu. Enye iphupha lilondoloza ubukho ebomini beengxaki ezincinci, eziza kuphelisa ngokukhuselekileyo.
Yintoni iphupha lemvula?
Iphupha elinjalo lingabonwa njengesilumkiso malunga neenguqu ezizayo. Ziziphi iindawo ezichaphazelayo, kuxhomekeka kwezinye iimeko zokulala.
Kutheni uphupha malunga nembungu emnyama?
Iimbongolo ezimnyama eziphambili zibonakalisa ukuba unokubambana nabadlali bakho kwaye uzibeke endaweni. Ukongeza, incwadi yephupha ithembisa ukutshintsha imeko yezemali. Enye iphupha malunga nezibungu ezimnyama zicebisa ukuba ucinge ngempilo yakho, kungekhona yedwa, kodwa izalamane zakho.
Kutheni kukho umphunga omkhulu?
Iphupha elinjalo lifanekisela ukunyaniseka kwakho. Ukubakho ukungathandabuzeki kwangoku kuye kwaba ziingxaki ezinkulu, eqinisweni, ziyakudityaniswa.