Imibono enjalo idla ngokulumkisa abameli besigxina esinamandla sabantu malunga neengozi. Kodwa ukuze uqonde kakuhle into enyoka ephupha ngayo ngomntu, simele sikhumbule zonke iinkcukacha zesalathisi. Emva koko, oku kungatshintsha ngokupheleleyo ukutolika kobuthongo.
Kutheni umntu enenyoka endlwini?
Xa umfana ebona ukuba ezi zinto ezimbi zivele kwindlu yakhe okanye endlwini, kuthetha ukuba yena ngokwakhe uvumelekile kumntu ombambisayo. Lo mbono uxwayisa ukuba umhlobo osondeleyo okanye intombazana ibhekisela kumfana ongeyonto enjengoko uzama ukubonisa. Ukukhohliswa, ukukhohlisa, umona oyimfihlo - yinto ephuphayo yindoda yendoda ngokuphathelele iincwadi zokuphupha. Emva kwephupha elinjalo, kufuneka ukhangele ngokucophelela kwisangqa sakho sangaphakathi kwaye ungavuleki kwaye uyamthemba.
Kutheni umntu ephupha inyoka ezininzi?
Ukuba isalathisi saye sahlala sisihlwele sesebe, kunokuthetha ukuba ebomini babantu bebaninzi abanqwenela ukugula. Njengomthetho, iphupha elinjalo lilumkisa abantu abanobukhwele abalinde kuphela xa ithuba lokutshabalalisa ubomi obonwabileyo okanye umsebenzi womntu uya kuvuka.
Kwimeko apho iinyoka zihlala kwi-tangle zinemibala emininzi, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba yiyiphi i-shades eyenzayo - emnyama okanye elula. Iziqu ezimhlophe okanye ezikhanyayo zithi ngokukhawuleza loo mntu uya kuphelisa ngokupheleleyo iinqwelo zeentshaba, kwaye, kuya kwenzeka "ngokuzimela."
Ukuba izidalwa zibumnyama, ngoko akufanele ulindele ukuphumelela ngokukhawuleza, ngokuchaseneyo, abantu abakhweleyo sele besenza konke ukutshabalalisa intsapho okanye impumelelo - yinto umntu aphupha ngayo, inyoka yebhola, apho kukho ininzi inyoka enemibala emnyama okanye eminye imibala elula. Kodwa, akufanele uloyike. Lo mbono uxwayisa ngeengozi, oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba kuthathwa amanyathelo, unokuphepha ingxaki.