Amadoda amaninzi kunokuba abafazi baxhomekeke kwiinkalo zobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ngoko ukuva ukulahlwa kwesondo ngesahlulo sezesondo, kufanelekile ukuba le nto ingekho. Enye into apho ukulahlwa kwesifo kuvela kumntu. Kutheni amadoda engafuni ukulala ngesini - ngumbuzo, impendulo oyifumana kule nqaku.
Izizathu eziphambili zokunqatshwa kwamadoda ngokwesini kunye neqabane labo zengqondo ziquka ezi zilandelayo:
- Ukutshatyalaliswa kweentshukumo. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ekuthandweni kukho ukugqithiselwa kokubili kunye nokunyuka. Ngoko ke, xa ubuhlobo bufika ixesha lokuzola, kufuneka udale iindlela ezininzi zokunqoba nokuyenga umntu wakho ukuba avuselele ilangatye yothando.
- Iqhekeza kunye nentanda yakho. Ingquzulwano, ngokukodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo iphindaphinda, ivelise ukungaboni nje kuphela ulwalamano phakathi kwezesini zesibini, kodwa inokulimaza ubomi obusondeleyo. Abafana babonakala nje 'banamaqabunga enqabileyo' ukusuka ngaphandle, nangona kunjalo ingxabano ingabachaphazela, njengayiphi na intombazana.
- Imiqolo. Ukugqithisa kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka okungapheliyo kwi-robot kunye nokungaqondakali kwintanda ethandekayo ekhaya, kunokuba ixesha elide likhonze umnqweno womntu wokulala ngesondo.
- Iimpawu zendalo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba indoda inomdla wokulala ngesantya, kunye nomfazi ngexesha langokuhlwa. Yingakho ukuzithoba nomlingane ngokuhlwa kungakwazi ukuvelisa iziphumo, kuba ukungahambelani kwama-biorhythm yabantu bendidlala indima apha.
- Iingxaki zempilo. Apha sineengcinga ezingenamandla okanye ezinye izifo zolu hlobo, baninzi baye bacinga. Oogqirha bathi emva kweminyaka engama-25-27, impilo yomntu iqala ukuphazamisa indlela yakhe yobomi, imikhwa emibi, njl njl. Ukwenqaba kwesondo kungenziwa ngenxa yokuyeka ukutya ngokugqithisileyo okanye ukungafiki ixesha elide lokuzikhandla.
- Isidima. Kungenzeka ukuba indoda yakho ayivumelani nawe ngohlobo lwesimo sengqondo, ngokunxulumene noko ufuna khona ngesondo ngaphantsi kunokuba ufuna. Akukho ndawo ekuvuyisaneni ngayo ngokuhlambalazana, njengendlela kuphela yokuphuma kule meko ukuxubusha ingxaki kwaye ufumane ukungqinelana okuya kuhambelana namacala omabini.
Ngoko, siye saqwalasela izizathu zokuthi kungani amadoda angayenqabile ebomini obusondeleyo, ngoku akunakulungele ukucinga ngezizathu zokubangela ukuba amadoda amaninzi akwazi ukuzicingela ubomi bawo ngaphandle kobudlelwane bezesondo.
Kutheni amadoda ehlala efuna isondo?
Kukho uluvo lokuba ngesondo indoda iphakama ukuya kwi-80% yamandla ebalulekileyo ekufezekiseni kwakhe, impumelelo kunye nempumelelo. Njengoko kwaziwa, ukwaneliseka ngokwesini kunye nokwaneliseka kwezidingo zomzimba-njengendlala, zizinto eziphambili zobomi babantu. Indoda, enikwe imvelaphi ye-hormonal ephakamileyo, ayifuni enye into. Abasetyhini, njengomthetho, bayalibala ukuba impawu zabo zendalo ziqala kwaye zifuna ukufunwa kwiintlobo zabo ezizithandayo kunye nokufumana ngaphandle kokwaneliseka kokuqala kweemfuno zabo.
Kutheni amadoda ehlala efuna isondo?
Ukusuka kwimbono yezinto zezinto eziphilayo, nangona kunjalo kungenangqiqo, kunokudalwa umntu ukuze kuqhutywe i-genus. Ekuqaleni kwimbutho yokuqala, ubude bomhlaba obunzima bokulala ngokwesondo kwakuneminyaka eyi-18-25, bafuna ukuhamba abaninzi njengenzalo enokwenzeka ukuze abantu bakwazi ukuqhubeka bekhona nokuphuhlisa. Nangona amaxesha amandulo ayedlulile kwixesha elidlulileyo iimpawu zendlela yokuziphatha zifakwe kuthi kwinqanaba le-DNA, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuzinqumla okanye ukuzitshintsha ngokuqonda kwethu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunakulungelelaniswa nokuziphatha kwamanye amadoda ngexesha lethu, kodwa uchaza isizathu sokuba indoda yesondo idlala indima enkulu ebomini.