Yonke intombazana iyazi malunga nemithetho yokuziphatha etafileni nasendaweni kawonkewonke, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu onokuqikelela ukuba kukho umhlobo wesini wesini. Kodwa imigaqo yethoni elungileyo kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi xa kwenzeka okokuqala ngqabane elitsha. Ukususela kokusondelana okuninzi kuxhomekeka, ngaphandle kweentlanganiso ezodwa. Emva koko, unako ukwenza into nayiphi na into, kungcono ukuba uzame ukushiya impembelelo enhle.
Imithetho yesetekiso sesini sabasetyhini
- Yiba yimfihlakalo yanamhlanje . Ayikho imfihlo yokuba amadoda anqwenela ukunyamekela njengabavulindlela, atyhila iimfihlelo kwaye abe ngabanikazi bodwa bemfihlo. Iimfihlelo zamabhinqa ezithandekayo zithandwa kakhulu kubo. Le ndlela ilungele ukucebisana nolwazi olutsha, kodwa ukuba awukhululekile nalo, kufuneka uqikelele. I-intuition yesifazana ayisoloko ihluleka, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo sinokuziva sisaba kunye nomlingane, ubudlelwane kunye (nokuba lukhawuleza) luya kuphazamisa.
- Yiba ngumgangatho oqhelekileyo wesitayela kunye nengcamango engaqondakaliyo . Amanye amantombazana akholelwa ukuba ngokubonisa umzimba ohamba phambili, baqinisekisiwe ukuphumelela umdla wabantu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umsila obunzulu, umkhonto omncinci okanye ingubo egqityiweyo ngasemva, ukuvula kancane inxalenye engaphezulu yamacangca ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kutsala ingqalelo, kodwa kuphela ngongoma wakho ombi. Ukuze ube "inkosikazi yebhola" khumbula indlela ovakalelwa ngayo isitayela, ukhetha isilingo esilungileyo ngokubuyisana ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ngokomzekelo, umkhonto wepencil uveza ngokucacileyo iindlovu zesifazane, okanye i-skirt eneqabunga apho i-lace igcina ikhanya khona, ngezinye iinkcazo ezingaphezulu kweyesiketi esincinci efana nebhanti elibanzi ubude.
- Into ephambili yokhuseleko . Ungatsho kangako njengoko uthanda ukuba iikhondom ziyakuthintela ukuba ungonwabi ngokwenene, kodwa awuyikuthembela okokuqala ukuba unqabise ukukhuselwa? Ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuthatha inyathelo elinjalo, ixesha kufuneka lidlule, zombini amaqabane kufuneka aqiniseke ngokuthembeka komnye nomnye. Ngako-ke, kungcono ukuxoxa ngombandela wokukhusela kwangaphambili, endaweni yokucima ukubonakala kwekhondom kumntu othi, ngokushisa komnqweno, unokulibala ngokupheleleyo into.
- Ngaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi . Wonke umfazi ungowesi sambatho sokunxiba ngokukhethekileyo, ngoko ke intlanganiso enokuthandana ukhethe ikiti yakho oyithandayo. Uya kukunika ithemba lokuba ungeze iinkalo ezininzi zobundlobongela kumfazi. Gcina okokuqala ngenye into ukusuka kwinto enesifo esilukhuni-esingcolileyo, kungekhona wonke umntu ongamkela oku. Ukuba ufuna ukukubona kwengubo yangaphantsi yesikhumba kunye nokugqithisa, uya kukuxelela emva koko.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthula kuyindoda . Sonke siyazi ukuba ngexesha lokutyelela, ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba ngowokuqala, kubalulekile ukuxelela malunga nezinto ozikhethayo ukuze bangadani. Kodwa kukho amaxesha apho kungcono ukugcina ulwimi lwakho olungalindelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha leengxaki kunye nomlingani wokwakha okanye nge-orgasm yakho. Kwimeko yokuqala, musa ukugxeka okanye ukubonisa uvelwano oluvulekileyo, kungcono ukuzithemba ngokuzithemba uze uzame ukumnceda. Kwaye nangona ukunganeliseki kwakhe, kukho ukhetho lokucela ngokuqhubekayo ukuqhubeka okanye emehlweni akhe ukuqala ukwanelisa, umntu onqabileyo unokuhlala engathandeki kulo mboniso.
- "Ngomdla, ungowokuqala, ubuninzi bobabini . " Umbuzo wezabelo zesini uza kuvela ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ukuba uluhlu lwakho lwabathandwa luye lwadlula ixesha elishumi, lufanelekile ukuthetha? Amanye amadoda ayenjalo, kodwa unethuba lokuba yinto engcono, yiyo yonke into ayifunayo.
- Ngaba kukufanelekile ukubonakalisa i-orgasm? . Ukunyaniseka kubudlelwane ngokuqinisekileyo kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kumanyathelo okuqala kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze sengathi yonke into ingaphezulu. Yaye ke, awukwazi ukufihla ukuzonwabisa kwakho ngesondo, qiniseka ukuba ubonise kwaye uthethe ngovuyo oye wawafumana.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo kuya kuba buhlungu xa ungazami into entsha . Hamba uvumelane nomlingane, ungesabi ukuzama, kuba ukuba uyinto ethile
ungakhange uzame, akuthethi ukuba ukungakwazi ukufumana isondo ngo ku kholisa. Kodwa oku akusebenzi kuloo maxesha xa iqabane lakho linikela into engathandekiyo okanye engavumelekanga kuwe. Kule meko, kufuneka uthethe ngaphandle koyiko lokophula umthetho.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni - ube nobulumko. Amantombazana amaninzi anqwenela "ukuvavanya" abaviwa abaningana ngeveki enye, ke ukukhetha okulungileyo. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo nawe, gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe malunga nokuziphatha okunjalo, kuquka nabahlobo bakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo umntu akafanele azi ukuba kukho umntu ngaphandle kwakhe.