Nangona abanye abantu bajonga ukuba iimpawu ziyizinto eziyinyani, abaninzi banokuqiniseka ukuba ngokwenene baqulethe ubulumko bezizukulwana. Iinkolelo zazivela ngenxa yokugcinwa kweentata zethu, ezazithelekisa iziganeko ezahlukahlukeneyo ezijikelezayo. Inani elikhulu leempawu lidibene nomzimba womntu kwaye bakuvumela ukuba ufumane oko kwenzeka ntoni kusasa elizayo. Ukwazi ukuchazwa kweenkolelo, unokufumanisa ukuba ubuso bubuphi ubusuku, ngemini nangemihla eyahlukeneyo yeveki.
Okokuqala, sincoma ukuba siqonde umzimba wokubonakala kobomvu ebusweni. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntu uyatshisa xa umntu ejongene noxinzelelo olunzulu okanye evakalelwa ngumsindo. Sekunjalo kunokuba yinto engabonakaliyo kuyo nayiphi na imveliso okanye kwizilwanyana. Ubuso busenokutshisa xa iqondo lokushisa litshintsha ngokumangalisayo, umzekelo, ukuba ushintshile ebusweni ukuze ufudumale. Abanye abantu banomdla wokubomvu ngenxa yokulungiswa kweempahla.
Kutheni ubuso bubushushu?
Ukuba kukho "umlilo" kwindawo yesitye, ngoko umzuzwana uthetha ngomntu, kwaye oku kuya kwenzeka ngeendlela ezilungileyo nezimbi. Ukuze ufumane, kufuneka uthabathe intsimbi yegolide uze uyibambe eluhlathini ukusuka kwisihlunu ukuya kumhlathi osezantsi. Ukuba emva koko kuya kubakho umbala omhlophe, kuthetha ukuba incoko ihamba kakuhle. Xa umgca uhlala umnyama - lo luphawu lokuba abanye abantu baxubusha kunye nokugxeka. Ngamaxesha amandulo kwakukholelwa ukuba ukuba ukhumbule ngokwengqondo kwaye uvakalise igama lomntu othi izinto ezingamnandi, ngoko kubomvu kuya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo zokutolika, ubuso bubushushu ngezinyembezi. Ukucima isenzo sesibonakaliso, kufuneka uhlambe amanzi angcwele, kakuhle, okanye kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo ngamanzi amaminerali e-alkaline.
Kutheni ubuso bubutha ngoMvulo yi-harbinger yokubandezeleka. Ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani oza kuba neengxaki, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela ixesha apho kwakungekho nto:
- kusasa-le nsizwa iya kuba namava;
- isidlo - kukufanele ukulinda umhlobo okanye udade;
- Ngobusuku - izalamane ezisondeleyo ziya kuhlupheka;
- busuku - kufuneka ukhathazeke.
Oko ubuso bubutha ngoLwesibili - bubonisa ukuvelana. Ukuze ufumane okungakumbi, qwalasela ixesha:
- kusasa - umtshini uza kuba kwiindawo ezikufutshane;
- Ukuvalelwa kwesidlo sasemini kuya kuvela kumfokazi;
- ngokuhlwa - umntu ongenamdla unemizwa;
- busuku - iimvakalelo ezintle zivela kubaphathi.
Kuloo nto umntu ngoLwesithathu ukutshisa kuyintambo yomhlangano. Ukuchonga ukuba ngubani oza kudala, kufuneka uqikelele ixesha lokungahambi kakuhle:
- kusasa - ukubona umhlobo wam;
- isidlo - intlanganiso iya kwenzeka kunye nomntu onomdla;
- ngokuhlwa - umhlobo ovela ngaphambili uya kuvela;
- busuku - kuya kubakho intlanganiso ende elinde ixesha elide.
Kutheni ubuso bubutha ngoLwesine yi-omen yamangalisa amahle. Icala labo limele ulindele, unokufunda ukususela ngexesha lokubonakala "komlilo":
- kusasa - oogxa baya kuzama emsebenzini;
- isidlo sihlelwe ngabahlobo;
- ngokuhlwa - ubumnandi bukulindeleke kumntu oye wadibana naye nje kutshanje;
- Iimvakalelo ezinobusuku ziza kuzisa ingxabano ngokukhawuleza.
Oko ubuso bubushushu ngoLwesihlanu lubuqili bomona. Ukufumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo nolwaziweyo, kulungile ukuqwalasela ixesha lokungahambi kakuhle:
- Kusasa kuvuka umona kumntu ongalindelanga nhlobo;
- isidlo - umona uya kukubetha;
- ngokuhlwa - kuya kuba nomoya wokuba nomnini kumhlobo;
- Umona wobusuku uza kubonakala kumntu omthandayo.
Kutheni umntu etshisa ngoMgqibelo ngumqondiso weentlebo. Ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani othethayo ngokubhekiselele kuwe ekukhanyeni okubi, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela ixesha 'lomlilo':
- Iimfuno ezingenakusasa kufuneka zilindeleke kubasebenzi;
- isidlo - ukuhleka kweentombi kukutshabalalisa amantombazana;
- ngokuhlwa - ababi bayathetha;
- Ubusuku - abantu abangaqhelekanga baxoxa.
Isizathu sokuba ubuso bubuthe ngeCawe yi-harbinger yokudumisa. Ukuze ukwazi ukuba ngubani oya kuphendula kakuhle, qwalasela ixesha:
- kusasa - ngendlela efanelekileyo intombi zixoxa;
- isidlo - indumiso kufanelekile ukulinda kumntu othandekayo;
- ngokuhlwa - amagunya alungile;
- busuku - kuya kudunyiswa ngabantu abangabaziyo.
Khumbula ukuba iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo , ngoko cinga ngezinto ezilungileyo.