Ngamanye amaxesha ngamaphupha umntu ubona izinto ezintle, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zizinto eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye ngokuchanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo, kwanezenzo ezinjalo, njengokuhlamba kwezesondo, kukuvumela ukuba ufunde ulwazi oluninzi olunomdla nolubalulekileyo malunga nekamva. Ukwenza ufeze ngakumbi, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zephupha, umthwalo wemvakalelo, kunye nokulandelelanisa ukuxhamla kunye neemeko zobuqiniso.
Kutheni ujonge malunga nokuhlamba?
Ukulala, apho uhlamba ngokucophelela phantsi, uqikelela ukuqhubela phambili kwekhondo lomsebenzi. Incwadi yephupha ithi unokukwazi ukufezekisa into oyifunayo xa uzinzela wena kwaye ungahambisani nobunkokheli. Ukuba omnye umntu uyasuswa, ngoko uya kulahlwa ithuba kwaye isikhundla siya kufumana kumdlali. Umbono ebusuku, apho uhlamba umgangatho ococekileyo, uqikelela ukuvela kweengxaki kunye nezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kukho ulwazi lokulala, apho bekufuneka ukuba uhlambe umgangatho, ubonisa ukudumala ebomini.
Ukuba ugqiba ukuhlamba phantsi engcolileyo kwindawo ephuphayo - lo luphawu oluhle oluthembisa ukuba utshintsho ebomini. Kukho ulwazi oluchaseneyo, ngokubhekiselele kuloo phupha libikezela ukufa komntu othandekayo. Phuma emsebenzini ephupheni, ngoko ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, amagunya aqaphele imizamo yakho ixesha elide. Kukho enye ingcaciso apho iphupha elinjalo lingahunyushwa njengeliso lokungcola emsebenzini. Uninzi kunokwenzeka, kuza kuvela uxanduva olutsha olusondeleyo, apho ongekuvuyela khona. Ukulala apho kufuneka uhlambulule esitezi esibhedlele, uqikelele ukuphucula imeko yezinto eziphathekayo. Umbono ebusuku, apho uzama ukuhlambulula umgangatho wamatye, ubonisa ukuba kufuneka uzame ukufihla inyaniso yobomi ukuze ubonakale bhetele. Ukuba ufanele uhlambulule kwindlu yomnye umntu, ukuziphatha kwakho kuya kukwazi ukutshintsha ubomi bomnye umntu. Kwafuneka ndihlambe umgangatho ngephupha ephupheni, lo mbono ebusuku ubaluleke kakhulu, ngokubhekiselele ukuba yintoni umngcipheko wokufumana imeko engathandekiyo.
Ukuthatha umhlalaphantsi esikolweni kuthetha ukuba ukuphumelela ebomini kubalulekile ukulandela iziphakamiso zabanye abantu. Ukuba uhlamba umgangatho kwisibonelelo esisemthethweni - esi sibonakaliso esihle esithembisa ukuphucula izinto. Ukulala, apho ndafuneka ndihlambe khona phantsi kwindlu, ikhuthaza ukulibala malunga neempazamo zexesha elidlulileyo kunye nokuqala ubomi ukususela ekuqaleni. Enye yeencwadi zephupha ithi umbono ebusuku, apho uhlamba khona endlwini, ubonisa iingxoxo emva kwakho kwaye kwixesha elizayo kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba kwi-scandal engenangqondo. Ukuba uhlamba phantsi ngamanzi ahlambulukileyo, ngoko kwixesha elizayo ungathembela kwimpumelelo emsebenzini, mhlawumbi uya kufumana ukwanda okanye ukwanda kwimivuzo.
Iphupha ekufuneka uhlambe kuyo phantsi kwecawa isilumkiso sokuba kwixesha elizayo uza kufuneka unyamezele into ethile. Ukuba umgangatho wahlanjululwa ngomnye umntu, ngoko kukufanelekile ukuba uqaphele, kuba emva kweentshaba zikhula
Kutheni umfazi ephupha ukuhlamba?
Umfazi otshatileyo, iphupha apho azihlambulula khona ekhaya lakhe kubonisa ukuba akayithandi ubomi bentsapho. Ingcaciso yephupha icebisa ukwenza ezinye iinguqu zokubuyisela ubudlelwane kunye nomthandayo. Kubafazi abangatshatanga, ukucoca ngokubanzi ukubonwa kwe-fan entsha kunye nokuba into ebalulekileyo kukuba ulwalamano lunokuphela ngomtshato.