Ukuzalwa komntwana yenye yezona ziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini nawuphi na umfazi, omele uthathe ngokungathí sina. Nangona kunjalo, sifanele senzeni ukuba oku kungenzeki ngokwenene? Indlela yokuqonda ukuba yiyiphi amaphupha okubeletha ephupheni, kuba abaguquli abahlukeneyo bephupha baphupha leli phupha ngendlela yabo. Kwaye ukuze ufumene ukuba yiyiphi intlekele eyilungiselele yona, kufuneka ukhumbule ngokunje ngokusemandleni iinkcukacha zokulala, umzekelo, nokuba kukuzalwa kwakho okanye omnye umntu, nokuba ingaba yinkwenkwana okanye intombazana, isifo esinzima okanye esilulayo sishiya emva kokuvuswa .n.
Kutheni ujonge malunga nokuzala ephupheni?
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ootata babecinga ukuzalwa komntwana isigramente enkulu, kwaye kunye nenkqubo ngokwayo yadibanisa ezininzi iinkolelo-ze. Uninzi lwempawu luye lwasinda nanamhla, kunye nabasetyhini abakulungiselela ukuvelisa umntwana, bahlala bebalandela, nangona bazalana ngoku kungabikho kwiibhafu kwaye kungekhona kwintsimi, kodwa kwizibhedlele ezizodwa phantsi kolawulo loogqirha. Akumangalisi ukuba amaphupha anxulumene nokubeletha ahlale ebangela uxhalaba oluninzi. Emva koko, bahlala bephethe i-charge emoyeni enamandla kakhulu, bafuna ukucinga ukuba loo mbono ithunyelwe ngesizathu esihle.
Kwaye, ingcaciso yaloo maphupha ngokubeletha ingafumaneka kuzo zonke iincwadi ezinkulu zokuphupha. Ngokomzekelo, uSlavonic endala uVelesov dreambook uchaza ukuba ukuzalwa okulula kukukhokelela kwintlalo novuyo; ukusilela, ukulahlekelwa. Kodwa incwadi yobugqirha iMedea isebenza iphupha ngokungafaniyo: ukuzalwa ephupheni kubonisa ukuvela kweengcamango entsha, ukuvula kwimeko entsha, ezinye iindaba. Kwaye kunenzuzo ngakumbi ukuba iphupha libonwa ngumntu.
Abo banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuba baphuphe ukuzala, banokubhekisela kwincwadi yephupha yengqondo kaFreud. Ithi ukuzalwa komntwana ephupheni kuthetha ukuba abantu abasavukayo abaza kutshatyalaliswa ubomi bakho, mhlawumbi kuya kuba yintlanganiso enomdla kunye nomthandi okanye umhlobo omdala oye walala naye. UDreambook we-White Magician Yu Long u yazisa ukuba ukuba uza kuzalwa ephupheni luphawu lokuphumelela iingxaki. Ngokomntwana wephupha kaVangi, ephupheni, ukufa komntu osondelene nabo ngexesha lokubeletha - ngoko ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane phakathi kwakho buya kuncipha. Umsebenzi wokukhanya ephupheni - uya kuncedwa kwizenzo zakho.
Kutheni sifuna ukuzala intombazana?
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ubulili bomntwana ozalelwe ephupheni. Abo bafuna ukwazi ukuba baphupha ntoni ngokuzala umntwana, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula ukuba intombazana yayisentombazana. Ukuba ukhetho lokuqala lufanelekile, ukulala kufuneka kuthathwe njengento ekhethekileyo. Uthi lowo ayeliphuphayo ngokukhawuleza uza kufika ixesha elifanelekileyo ebomini, uya kukwazi ukuphumelela kwimpumelelo kwaye uzenzele ngeniso engaphezulu. Kwabesetyhini abatshatileyo, ukhuthaza ukwamkelwa kweendaba ezilungileyo, kunye nokuqala kohlobo olutsha lomtshato nomyeni wakhe.
Kutheni uphupha ukuba ubele umntwana?
Ukuba iphupha lenzekile ukubona ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe, kufuneka ulindele ukukhushulwa, qalisa iiprojekthi ezithakazelisayo, uhambo lwezorhwebo, njl. Unako ukunikela ubungqina
Kutheni uphupha ukuzala amawele?
Iphupha liphumelele kakhulu kwaye malunga nokuzalwa kwamawele. Uthetha malunga nokwenza inzuzo, ilifa, ukuphumelela i- lottery- oko kukuthi, malunga nokufumana enkulu. Kwabesifazana abangatshatanga, ubonisa umtshato wokukhawuleza, okanye ubuncinci bothando lomtshato.