Abantu abaninzi abaqapheli ukuba ezinye izenzo, abaninzi abangenacala xa bebheka kuqala, kunokukhokelela kwingxaki. Umzekelo, akusiyo sonke esazi ukuba kutheni ungeke uhambe emangcwabeni ebusuku nokuba zihamba njani ezinokuhamba.
Kutheni ungeke ukwazi ukuya emangcwabeni ebusuku, ngokutsho kweengcali?
Ukuba uphulaphule abantu ababandakanyekayo kwiziganeko ezahlukeneyo eziyimfihlo kunye neyezinye izinto, unokuqonda iingozi zokutyelela okunjalo. Inyaniso kukuba i-churchyard ithathwa njengoluhlobo lwekhaya ngenxa yemiphefumlo yabantu abafileyo, kwaye ixesha lobusuku libhekwa kwixesha elizayo lehlabathi.
Kakade, kunokwenzeka ukukhwela ebusuku ukuya emangcwabeni, umntu ngamnye uzimisela. Kodwa ngoku kumtyelela ngeli xesha, unokumcaphukisa imimoya enokubangela ukugula, ubunzima, iingxaki zempahla kunye nezinye iingxaki.
Kutheni ungahambi emangcwabeni ebusuku?
Ukongeza kwinqanaba elimangalayo lombuzo, kukho enye inokwenene. Abaninzi bethu abaqapheli ukuba ebusuku kukho iindwendwe ezizodwa kwiindawo zecawa - abantu abangenamakhaya, abatywala, izidakamizwa , kunye nezigulane zengqondo. Ezi ntlobo zabantu zihlangene emangcwabeni, kuba akukho zithuba zamapolisa apho, oko kuthetha ukuba unokwenza nantoni na. Njengoko uqonda, abayidingi "inkampani" nokuba. "Iindwendwe ezingaqhelekanga", izinto ezinjalo zoluntu azithandi. Ngoko ke, ukuhamba okunjalo kunokuba yingozi nje. Ukudibanisa neziyobisi, utywala okanye ingqondo engavumelekanga kunokuphela komntu esibhedlele okanye nakwi-morgue.
Indlela yokuba sele isicacile, kwaye kunye nengqiqo, kwaye kunye nendawo ebonakalayo yombuzo, nokuba kungenzeka ukuba uhambe ebusuku emangcwabeni inqunywe ngumntu ngokwakhe. Ukuba umntu uthanda ukubeka ingozi engento kwaye engenayo i-adrenaline eyaneleyo, kutheni kungenjalo, kodwa kumntu onengqiqo, kungcono ukutyelela amangcwaba emini. Ngoko ke ukhuselekile kwaye uxolo khona.