Ngamaxesha amandulo abantu bazama ukuvula imfihlelo yamaphupha, okanye kunoko, yintoni imithwalo yomthwalo abaphetheyo. Amava okhokho ayechazwe kwiincwadi ezininzi zokuphupha, okwenza ukuba kube lula ukuchaza amaphupha ahluke ngokupheleleyo.
Kutheni ukuphakama nokwesaba kokuwa kwehla?
Ngokuqhelekileyo eli phupha liyindlela yokuziphatha. Ixesha lokuyeka konke ukungathandabuzeki kwaye uhambele phambili. Kwenye yeencwadi zokuphupha, ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo kuyisimboli esichazela utshintsho ebomini. Iphupha apho umntu ephakamileyo kwaye esaba ukuwa, ubonisa umnqweno wokuphula umthetho. Ukuba umphuphi wehla ukusuka ekuphakameni kunye namava oloyiko oluqinileyo, kwaye kungekudala uza kujongana neengxaki, kodwa ungakhathazeki, ngenxa yokunikela kwabo, kuya kukwazi ukuphumeza iziphumo ezilungileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo kukuphi abantu, ngokuchaseneyo, bathanda izinto ezinzulu ebomini bokwenene, kwaye abanalo i- phobia . Kule meko, iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba umntu akakwazi ukukhululeka. Mhlawumbi umntu osendaweni esondeleyo uhlala esweni okanye ebonisa ukuba kufuneka kwenziwe ntoni. Ukuchazwa kwephupha kukuthi lixesha lokurhoxisa iinkukhu. Kwanjalo iphupha elinjalo lingenza umntu afune imfuneko yokuphumla. Siza kufumanisa ukuba ukwesaba ukuphakama kwiphupha labantu abajongene nokukhetha okunzulu. Isicwangciso esinjalo sinokuthathwa njengesinconywa, ukuba umntu kufuneka azenze kunye kunye enze isigqibo esibalulekileyo.
Ngoku siza kufumanisa ukuba ukwesaba abantu abaphakamileyo ukuphuphayo, abo banaloo mibi kwimpilo yabo yemihla ngemihla. Kwiimeko ezininzi, eli qhinga lithetha ukuba akufanele uzibekelele iinjongo ezinkulu. Kubalulekile ukucinga ngenyathelo ngalinye kwaye ungakheli ukukhiya umoya. Ngona mbono wobusuku obunjalo ungabonwa njengomkhandlu ukuba akudingeki ukuba uzifunise ngokwakho.