Kutheni umntwana ebeka ulwimi lwakhe - lo mbuzo ukhathazeka ngokukrakra, bobabini abasandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nabazali abanamava, abaneentloni ngokuziphatha komntwana wabo.
Ngoko, masithi "sithintele ukukhanya okuncane" kule ngxaki yomntwana.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa umntwana ebeka ulwimi lwakhe?
Ukuqala, siya kugxila kubantwana abadala. Abantwana besikolo, abafundela abantwana, kunye namaxesha amade abantu abadala "benza" le ngqungquthela ukuze bakhangele ingqalelo baze bachithe imeko. Kubonakala ukuba, abadala kunye nabo ngokwabo ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwangoko babonisa umfana "umbi" umzekelo, ezama ukutshintsha ingqalelo emadolweni aphukileyo okanye i-toy ephukileyo.
Kwakhona, umntwana okhulile unamathele ngolwimi lwakhe ngokuqhankqalaza nokunganeliseki, ngokuphendula kwisicelo esingathandekiyo okanye umzali.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, akufuneki ukuba ugxininise kule ngqalelo, kufuneka uxelele ngokucacileyo umntwana ukuba akulungile ukukhupha ulwimi kwaye akuyi kwenza into enhle.
Kutheni umntwana ekhupha ulwimi?
Kule meko, awukwazi ukubhala yonke into yokunyusa okanye ukubonakalisa isimo sengqondo. Ngoko ke, ngombuzo wokuba umntwana ushiya ulwimi, abazali bahlala beya kubantwana bezingane. Emva kokubuza umama kunye nokuhlola umntwana, ugqirha unokucinga ukuba:
- inkunzi ikhupha amazinyo, kwaye ngoncedo lwezenzo ezinjalo uzama ukujamelana nokukhathazeka;
- Umntwana ugcina umlomo wakhe uvule kwaye ukhulume ulwimi lwakhe, ngokuba ulambile;
- uye wahlutha okanye i- stomatitis , kula maxesha kwiintlobo, izihlunu kunye nolwimi lweengubo ezimhlophe okanye izilonda zibonakala, ngokulandelanayo;
umntwana usebenzise nje, kuba ulwimi luyisisipha; - Umlomo womntwana uvule kancane kwaye ulwimi luphelelwa ngaphandle, kuba lo mva awuhambisani nomlomo. Le ngxaki, nangona ingaqhelekanga, kodwa inendawo yokuhlala;
- Iintsana zigula nge-hypothyroidism (phambi kweminye impawu). Olu luxilongo olunzulu, olwenziwa emva kokuhlolwa okupheleleyo;
- umntwana angavula umlomo wakhe, ikhanda lakhe liphonswe emva kwaye ulwimi lwakhe lukhunike ngexesha lokulala ngenxa yokunyuswa kwengcinezelo.