Masikhumbule ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabemi kubomi bezopolitiko bobukhosi babo. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kokhetho kuyamkelwa kuphela ngabantu abaye bafikelela kwiminyaka ethile okanye ininzi. Ngexesha elifanayo kwiGrisi Yamandulo, umzekelo, bonke abantu abakhululekile, ababeneminyaka engama-12 ubudala, babonwa njengeminyaka yobudala. Kwamazwe amaninzi anamhlanje, umntu unokubonisa uluvo lwakhe kwaye athathe inxaxheba ekuvotweni emva kokuba umntu ejika iminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.
Ngaloo ndlela, kubonakala ukuba umntwana omncinci akanalo ilungelo, apho abazali bakhe banelungelo. Ngoko kutheni amalungelo omntwana ehlukile kumalungelo omdala? Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ukungalingani? Masizame ukuqonda lo mbuzo.
Ingaba umntwana nomdala balingana namalungelo?
Kungokwemvelo ukuba bonke abantu kunye neenkcubeko banqanda abantwana abancinci kumalungelo abo. Nangona ukulingana okubonakalayo, ngokuqinisekileyo kuvela ukuba umntu omdala uba, unamalungelo afanelekileyo. Okokuqala kwaye okuphambili, oku kubangelwa ukunyamekela abantwana, kuba baninzi abanamava, oko kuthetha ukuba bangakwazi ukuphazamisa ubomi babo kunye nempilo yabo.
Ukongeza, abantwana banobuthakathaka kunabantu abadala kwaye abawuthwali uxanduva ngokupheleleyo kwizenzo zabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukulungiswa kwamalungelo omntwana omncinci kungabandakanywa kuphela nale micimbi apho ukungakwazi kwakhe nokungafumaneki kwemfundo kunokulimaza abanye okanye yena. Ngokwenza oko, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo unokubona imeko ezahlukeneyo,
Okwangoku, kwiindawo ezininzi zanamhlanje, amalungelo asemgangathweni omntwana ahlonishwa . Namhlanje, bobabini kunye nabantu abadala banelungelo lokuphila, ukukhuselwa kwindlobongela, ukufumana unyango oluhloniphekileyo, ulwalamano kunye namalungu entsapho kunye nabantu abasondeleyo, kwiimeko eziphathekayo zenkcubeko, ezempilo kunye nezoqoqosho kunye nophuhliso lwabo. .