Kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuzalwa kwakhe, umntwana unelungelo lokuthintana kuphela nabazali bakhe: ukunyamekela, ukunakekelwa, uthando. Kodwa ekukhuleni, i-krohe ngakumbi kwaye idinga uhlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana: ukudlala kunye noontanga, ukusebenzisana namanye amalungu omndeni, kunye nehlabathi langaphandle-oku kuthiwa ukuhlalisana komntwana, ngaphandle kokuphi na umphefumlo waluphi na ilungu elipheleleyo lomntu ongenako. Injongo ephambili yale ntsebenziswano kukuqeqeshwa kwemigangatho yabantwana kunye nemithetho yokuziphatha, izakhono zokwakha ubudlelwane.
Ama-Mugs kunye namacandelo, njengendlela eyongezelelweyo yentlalo
Ukubonakalisa ukubaluleka koqhagamshelwano kubantwana, ndicinga ukuba, akukho nto ingacacanga, wonke umzali othanda nokuthanda ulonwabo ngomntwana wakhe uyaziqonda ngokucacileyo ngaphandle kwamagama angadingekile. Ukuhlalisana kwabafundi abasebancinci abakwenzanga kubakho kuphela kwiqela apho afundela khona, kodwa nakwamacandelo ahlukeneyo kunye nezijikelezo. Ngako oko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala ukufaka inzala kumntwana kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa, ezemidlalo. Oku akusiyo kuphela ukufumana izakhono ezintsha, kodwa kunye nokuqiniswa kwempilo, kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho usaphumelela ngempumelelo ethile, inika kunye nokuzithemba, ngaphezu kohlobo oluthile lwabahlobo, inxalenye yezihlobo ezahlukileyo zinika umntwana umvakalelo omtsha kunye neminye imizekelo yokwakha ubudlelwane .
Inxaxheba yoluntu kwimpilo yabantwana
Ukuhlalisana kwezingane zasesikolweni, njengomthetho, kwenzeka enkulisa. Kwaye nokuba ngaba abazali banethuba lokuhlala kunye nezingane ngaphambi kwesikolo ekhaya, kungcono ukuyiyeka, kuba kungekudala i-crumb iya kuba neembambano zentlalo entsha, mhlawumbi iya kufumana impumelelo ebomini kwaye iya kuba nemathuba amaninzi okuzifeza.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlalisana komntwana kwintsapho, kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kwisangqa sabazali kunye neentsapho umntwana udlala indima efanayo, kwaye kwinqanaba unalo ithuba lokuzama ezintsha. Khuthaza izakhono zakho ezincinci ukusuka kwixesha lokudlala, uhambele kwiindawo zokudlala, u tyelele kuye izikolo ezahlukeneyo zophuhliso, kuba inxaxheba yoluntu kwimpilo yabantwana ayigxilile, ngokuzayo umntwana wakho uya kukubulela.
Iinkalo zentlalo
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlalisana kolutsha kubangela ubunzima kwiintsapho zabo, kuba ngaloo mzuzu umntwana wabo ufumana ixesha lokutshintsha, kwaye igunya labazali liphantsi kohlobo lwabahlobo kunye noontanga. Ukuhluleka kweHormon, iinkomfa malunga nokubukeka kwimiba yenza kube nzima ngezinye amaxesha ukuthetha phakathi kokukhula kwabantwana. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ngeli xesha, kuninzi kunokwenzeka ukuba unakekele abantwana babo, zama ukuba ngabahlobo babo. Ukuba abazali kunye nabaselula banomdla wokuziqhelanisa, oku kuya kusindisa imeko, ukuqinisa ukholo lwangumfana kunye nokuphakamisa ukuzithemba.