Izibonakaliso malunga nendlela yokudibana nomthando, abantu abanesizungu baya kunceda ukwazi ukuba umhlangano osindelwe ixesha elide kunye nehafu yesibini kuya kwenzeka ntoni, kodwa abo bahlala kwintando yeenkolelo ziza kunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane. Iimpawu ziyakwazi, kwaye ziqule ubulumko bezizukulwana ezingaphezu kwesinye, kodwa musa ukuziphatha ngokuzingela.
Izimpawu zothando kumantombazana
I-harbingers yesiqingatha sesibini yimivu eyanandiweyo evelelwa kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba kukho umnqweno ongenalwazi kwaye unamandla ukutshintsha into emfanekisweni wakho, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kuya kubakho intlanganiso kunye nomntu ofanelekileyo. Okumangalisa kukuba, babonisa utshintsho oluhle ebomini bomntu, ubuninzi beengxaki ezincinane eziphinda yonke imihla.
Ngokwezibonakaliso zothando kumantombazana, ukuba kwakungekho imvula ngosuku lokuqala, ngoko ubuhlobo buya kuvuya. Akuvumelekile ukuba amantombazana angatshatanga ahlale ekhoneni, njengoko aya kufuneka achithe ubomi bawo bonke abantombazana.
Imiqondiso yabantu yothando kubhangqwana:
- Ukuba abathandi abathandekayo kwixesha elitsha lenyanga, ngoko ubuhlobo buya kuba namandla kwaye buhlale.
- Xa intombazana icinga ngokukhethiweyo wakhe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukukhala kwenkwenkwe kuviwa, ubudlelwane abuyi kutshabalalisa nantoni na kusasa.
- Intlanganiso ecaleni kweepoplars ayifuni kakuhle, ngenxa yokuba esi sityalo sithathwa njenge-vampire, esinokuyithatha yonke into.
- Ngokwezibonakaliso zothando, u kisses kunye nokukhwaza kwizitebhisi ziyingozi, iingxaki ezithembisayo.
- Ukuba ngethuba lentlanganiso isithende sephukile, kufuneka ulindele ukuxabana nomthandi wakho.
- Ukutshatyalaliswa emva kweengxabano ezininzi kuya kuhola umhla kwibhuloho.
- Kwintsapho yayomeleleyo kwaye ihlala ihlala, ukunikezelwa kwesandla kunye nentliziyo yenziwa kakuhle ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa.
- Ukuba umthandi wenza isipho, ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ungaphakanyiswa ukuba ufotozwe naye, njengoko oku kungakhokelela ekuhlukaniseni.