Ngelishwa, ipesenteji yabasetyhini abangashadile iphakamileyo ngokwaneleyo. Yiyiphi kuphela ayifuni ukuba ahambe namantombazana aphelelwe yintshaba ukuze ukhange abantu. Abaninzi banquma ukuthabatha uncedo lwaMaGunya aPhakamileyo kwaye baphendukela kwimikhuba yemilingo. Ukuthanda umlingo nokuthanda iintlobo zamashumi eminyaka zithandwa kakhulu. Kukho iinkqubo ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokusetyenziswa ngabantu bonke ukuba zifunwa.
Iimpawu zothando zithemba ngamadoda
Abanye abameli bezesondo ezibuthathaka banquma ukuthabatha indoda evela kwelinye ibhinqa, apho basebenzisa umlingo . Inyaniso yokuba umntu uthintela umthandayo uya kuboniswa ngempawu:
- umnqweno ongekho phantsi wokuba nenkosikazi eyenza ukupela;
- ukungabikho kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubini;
- elahlekelwa ngumdla ebomini, kunokudakumba;
- umnqweno wokusela utywala.
Ukuthanda umlingo kunye neemfihlakalo zesipelo
Ukuze isiko sisebenze kakuhle, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kukho into enxulumene nento yokudumisa. I-Rite ingenziwa ngokusebenzisa iinwele. Ukongezelela, kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nekhandlela ezimbini, eziza kufanekisela umfazi kunye nendoda. Kufuneka babeke iinwele, zibe yindoda enye kunye nesinye isetyhini. Ukwenza oku, ikhandlela zingafakwa kwibhetri okanye zigcinwe ezandleni zabo, oku kuya kubangela ukuba bathambile. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuba wenze umfanekiso wesilisa kunye nesibhinqa emakhandlela, kwaye ubanike amagama afanelekileyo. Emva koko udibanise ikhandlela ezimbini kunye nomnye usebenzisa intambo ebomvu. Kubalulekile ukuba i-coil entsha. Ukuze kusebenze upelo lwe-spell, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha, ngexesha lokudibanisa kwamanani, loo njongo:
"Ndingahlala njani ngaphandle kwakho, ngoko (igama) awukwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwam."
Phinda amagama njengoko ubona kufanelekile. Kubalulekile ukuba ngexesha lokubhengezwa kwesipelo, ugxininiswa yimvakalelo emihle. Gcina iifaneli endaweni ukuze kungabikho mntu onokuzifumana. Yonke imihla, phinda isalathisi, ubambe iidodoli ezandleni de ukufika kwenyanga.
Uthando Privorot kude
Izibini ezininzi zibhidliza ngenxa yokuba kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba lingabikho. Kule meko, unako ukubamba umkhosi olula ukugcina iimvakalelo. Thatha izibuko ezimbini ezincinane uze uzibeke ngokubhekiselelana ukuze wenze i-corridor okuthiwa. Indawo efanelekileyo yokufeza - ifestile ifaka phambi kwefestile evulekile. Hlala phantsi esihlalweni somthi, kungekho zicathulo kunye neenwele ezivulekileyo. Thatha ikhandlela elikhanyayo kwaye ukhangela ilangatye. Akuvumelekile ukujonga kwisibuko. Xa i-wax iyancibilika encinci, yenze ikhandlela ukuze i-wax iqhube kwisandla sakho sokunxele. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka uhlale ucinga ngomthandayo. Xa isundu sonke siphezu kwe-wax, uyidwebe kwisibuko, uthi la magama:
Ndiyahlamba abantu abangathobeliyo. I-Soap ayimfuneko, zikhona iinyembezi zam. Andiyidingi ithawula, kukho iinwele zam. Uthando lwam aludingeki, kukho enye. Uya kushiya enye emacaleni amane. Wena wedwa uza kuhlala ewindow. Njengoko ikhandlela engenakuvakalayo yawela, ngoko uthando olungenakubuyiselwa luya kubuya. Xa ufika, uya kuhlala. Xa uhamba, uya kubuya. Amehlo abangamazi awakuboni, abanye abathethi ngomlomo. Nguwe kuphela ondiphulaphulayo, nguwe kuphela ofuna ukuya kum! (Igama lomntu) uva, (igama) uyazi, (igama) liya kukhunjulwa. Ndiyakugweba ukuba uthande, ndithi kum. Buyela maduze, uya kundibiza. Igama lam entliziyweni yakho iya kuba, umfanekiso wam ngegazi lakho ufihle! Ukuba yile (injalo kunye nenani elinjalo, elinjalo nelo xesha). "
Emva koko fungqa izibuko ubuso nobuso uze uzifake kwi-nightgown yakho. Ukugqiba upelo oluqinileyo , kufuneka ubeke ipakethe phantsi, ume phezu kweenyawo ezingenanto kwaye uthi:
"Ngaphandle kwegazi ndidibanisa, ngaphandle kwamagama athetha (igama) uya kubuyela kum okanye omnye uya kuhlala."
Ukusebenzisa isihlalo, siphule izibuko ngaphandle kokuzikhupha kwi-shirt. Shiya yonke into kwifestile kuze kube sekuseni. Ngomso olulandelayo, ngcwaba iziqhekeza ehlathini phantsi kwepine. Hamba ekhaya ungaphenduki kwaye ungathethi nabani na.
Indlela elula yokwenza uthando ithathe
Kukho iinkqubo ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo eziza kunceda ukufeza imbopheleleko yemilingo. Cinga ngesithethe, apho kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nempahla yento yokudumisa. Ukugqoka ngaphantsi kweengubo kuyona nto. Ukuqhuba isiko kuyimfuneko ngoLwesine ukuya kwiinyanga ezikhulayo. Geza ilinen, kwaye uyilumile, uthi ngala mazwi:
"Andiyikukhanyisa ikhandlela, kodwa intliziyo kunye nomphefumlo wam ubhelelwe likhoboka (igama) kum, inceku (igama), ngonaphakade."
Umntu othandekayo kufuneka agqoke iimpahla zokugqoka.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukususa ukupaka kwothando?
Kukho imimiselo yokurhoxisa impembelelo ekhoyo yemilingo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba abe nomfanekiso womntu oye watyathwa. Kubalulekile ukuqhuba umthendeleko ngosuku lwamadoda: ngoMvulo, uLwesibini okanye uLwesine. Thatha ikhandlela elimhlophe kwaye ulikhanyise. I-tablespoon yetyuwa ityhelwa phezu kwetangatye kunye nezihlandlo ezithathu zixelela icebo:
"Nkosi uNdikhoyo, uncedo uze ulondoloze.
Iityuwa, ezimhlophe kwaye zicocekile, zithatha inkunkuma kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama).
Yenza umonakalo obandezelekileyo, usizi,
Iingcinga zonakalisiwe,
Iimvakalelo zetyhefu.
Susa konke okuye kwanyanzeliswa, isiselo esinxilisayo, udliwe ngokutya,
Ngomlenze uthathe, igama elibi eli thunyelwe.
Thatha apho uvela khona, buyisele.
Ilizwi lam limelele, ngoko kunjalo. Amen. "
Emva koko uthele ityuwa kwisitya, ufake iingubo zelinen kunye nesithombe ngaphezulu. Isiko kufuneka siphinde siphindwe kathathu kwaye kuphela kwiintsuku zabantu. Isitya esetyenzisiweyo kufuneka siphoswe.