Ukuqabane kunye nomntu othandekayo kwezinye iziganeko kufana nokuphela kwehlabathi kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala kwimeko enjalo. Kule meko, njengoko kungenakwenzeka ngendlela, kuya kuba nolwazi lokumkhohlwa umthandwa kunye neengxoxo kunye nemigangatho . Amagama omlingo anceda ukucima ingqondo nentliziyo kwiintliziyweni. Ngexesha elikhawulezayo akufuneki ukubala, kodwa ngosuku ngalunye oludlulayo intlungu iya kuphelisa.
Ungakulibala njani umntu omthandayo ngecebo?
Isithethe kufuneka senziwe kuphela kwinyanga yokunyuka, ukuze yonke into iqhubeke ukuhla. Kubalulekile ukubeka iimbumba ezimbini zeepoppy kwisitya esicacileyo, uthele 1 iglasi yamanzi atshisayo kwaye utshilo icebo:
"Amanzi atshisayo - oku kukuva kwam, inceku kaThixo (igama lomthandayo). Ziyashisa nje, kodwa njengamanzi, ziya kupholisa ngaphaya kwexesha. "
I-Plate kufuneka ifakwe kwifestile kwaye ulinde amanzi apholise. Emva koko, zonke iziqulatho kufuneka zithululwe phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imithi eyomileyo, kunye nezihlandlo ezihlanu ukusho icebo lokukhawuleza ukulibala umhlobo wakho, kuba nguye owenza amandla:
"Iimvakalelo zam zitshisa, zavutha kwaye zazingayazi uxolo. Ndanduluka emaphandleni nasezintabeni, ixesha elide ndiyidla. Ingelosi yafika kum kwaye yangikhulula kumthwalo onzima. Wachukumisa iimvakalelo zam kwiimbewu zepoppy waza wafaka umlilo kwihafa ngamanzi. Umsi wasukuma waza wagijima kude nam nomoya. Ndiya ngoku kwaye ndiyazi izibi, andiyi kulila, andithandi, andithandi. "
Ungayikhohlwa njani umthandayo ngomlingo wesandla?
Lo mkhosi unamandla kakhulu, kodwa ukufezekiswa kwawo kuyimfuneko ukuya kwidolophana, kuba i-furnace yangempela iyadingeka. Isenzo sokuqala kukuba uhlambe ibinza kumanzi asixhenxe ahlukeneyo:
- isilivere, apho iintsuku ezintathu zibeka into enesiliva ibe yinqwelo;
- i-rowan, apho amajikijolo afakelwe iiyure eziyi-24;
- kwisitya esisodwa, ukuqokelela amanzi emva kokuhlamba;
- umlambo;
- entwasahlobo okanye kakuhle;
- abilisiwe;
- ngcwele.
Ngaloo ndlela, unciphise ummese kwisilwanyana ngasinye, uze uyigqubuthe ngengubo yekotoni yombala obomvu. Esi sigaba sokulungiselela singenziwa naphi na. Kwidolophana, shiya umlenze ebusuku ebusuku. Ngentsasa, iqela kufuneka lihluthelwe emlilweni, elisebusithini esincibilikiweyo. Inkqubo kufuneka iphindwe ngokuphindwe kasithoba kwaye ngexesha elifanayo xelela icebo:
"Njengalo mjelo umsi awuyikubamba, Ngoko kum, u-Irina, i-melancholy ayifuni. Yiba njalo. "
Emva koko ummese ulungele kwisambatho ehlanganiswe ngengubo ebomvu aze afike ekhaya. Emva koko, funda umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu" izihlandlo ezithoba. Kuhlala nje ukuba uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uzifihle amehlo.