Ngaphandle kokuchukumisa kwicala lokuziphatha kombuzo wokutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho (nokuba yintoni enokuba yiyo), siqhubela phambili kwinqanaba elincinci ngakumbi kulabo abaya kuphazamisa ngonaphakade yonke into ebophekileyo isithandana (okanye esingathandeki). Into eyona nto inokuba nomdla kwiimeko ezinjalo yimiphumo yee-lapels ezivela kubafazi. Masithi ngokukhawuleza: kuya kuba nemiphumo, kwaye baya kuvezwa ngabo bobabini kunye nabaxhoba.
Ukwahlukana kwiipalli
I-lapel evela kumfazi inokwenziwa ngeendlela ezininzi. Kungabanda - xa ulwalamano lomlingane lucolile, ngokuqala uqala ukuqonda umfazi wakhe njengomntu ongaphandle. Kukho ukuphazamiseka-oku kuyimpembelelo enamandla kubo bobabini, bavele baxabana, ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuphazamiseka, ukutshabalalisa zonke izibophelelo zangaphambili. Okanye mhlawumbi i-lapel ngokwayo iyimpembelelo yomlingo ekuqapheliseni komntu, kwi-body body.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-lapel neyobandayo yenzeni kuphela intlungu-intanda kunye nawe, kunye nokuhlaselwa - kubini bobabili kwaye, ewe. Kule meko, imiphumo ye-lapel yexhoba kunye nomenzi we-rite iya kuhlala ikhona, kunye nemiphumo yomfazi olahliwe-xa kwenzeka umququzelelo.
Imiphumo ayiyona into embi ngenxa yendoda ehambayo, kodwa "imingxuma" emikhulu e-aura yabantu.
Iziphumo
Ukugqiba kwi-lapel eqinile kumfazi wakhe, cinga ngoobani ekugqibeleni ufumana. Ukomelela ukuthanda kunye neemvakalelo zabantu, kuya kuba nzima ukulwa nobugqirha ngamandla ayo. Ayikwazi ukunqoba ukupela, uya kucima, athole induduzo kotywala, iziyobisi nezinye izinto ezintle.
Amadoda afumana i-lapel:
- bafumana iingxaki ezinkulu zempilo;
- zilula zonke izifo ezingapheliyo;
- kuba nobudlova, ukucaphukisa, iingqondo ze-psychopath - ngokwenene iingqondo zabo zitshatyalaliswa yi-lapel;
- bawela kwingcinezelo - bazive bengenamandla, abakholelwa ukuba ngomso kukho into enhle;
- ababa namandla;
- bathatha isiqalekiso esiqhelekileyo - xa ubudlelwane budibanisa ngokuphawulekayo kwaye amandla omlingo akakuvumeli ukuba uhlale, yonke into engeyiyo iya kudluliselwa kwisuka kwisizukulwana.
Ngokubhekisele kubafazi abazama ukuzithanda iintsimbi kunye neengqungquthela, umphumo awuyi kuba "ukuwina" nje "umntu ophuphayo". Unoxanduva lokutshabalalisa uthando (kunye nothando lomlingo luyingcwele), ngoko kufuneka uhlawule. Ukuhlawula kuya kuba yintlekele ekusebenzelaneni "nentanda" entsha, uya kuba neentlungu, ulahlekelwe yimpilo kunye namandla, ulwe nezifo. Xa ufumana into, kwaye nangakumbi, thabatha kumntu, uMhlaba ufuna ukulinganisa.