Kwihlabathi elithetha isiNgesi, ngokuqhelekileyo isiko lokujongana nomfazi, ingakumbi ukuba ungowomgangatho ophezulu woluntu. Ngokomxholo oqhelekileyo, ngubani na intombazana, sithetha ngowesifazane obonakala ngokukhawuleza ukuba amncede: amadoda athatyathwa, abe yinto engavamile kunye nesilumkiso, kunye nabafazi baphulaphule onke amazwi kunye nesenzo, bezama ukungaphuthelwa nkcukacha enye.
Imilinganiselo yale ntombi
Umfazi omdala okhulile kwintsapho elula, akulula ukuba yintombazana , kuba loo mantombazana akhuliswa ukususela ebuntwaneni. Bafundiswa indlela yokuhamba nokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, bahlale behlala kunye, bahloniphe imbeko, kunye nemilinganiselo yokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Ngokubonakala komfazi, ngokumisa kwakhe, ukuguqula intloko kunye nokukhangela, ungatsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyintombi okanye ayikho. Ngokubhekisele ekubonakalayo, lo mfazi akadingeki ukuba agqoke ngokukhatshwa kwindlela yokugqibela yentambo. Isitala seengubo zakhe kunokoqobo kwaye zivalwe, iingubo ziphezulu kwaye zizandi, zicocekile kwaye zicocekile.
Phakathi kweempawu zobomi bendoda inokuqatshelwa:
- Ukugcina ixesha. Akaze alinde ixesha elingaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa, kwaye xa edibana, uyaxolisa ngenxa yokukhawuleza.
- Ukuthobeka nokulingana. Le nkosikazi ayiyi kuvumela ukuba ilahlekelwe ngumsindo wayo, ibe yintlonelo okanye ihlambele kumntu. Esi sigama sakhe asikho amagama ahlukumezayo, kodwa unako ukucacisa ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo iingcamango zakhe kumntu odibeneyo ngaphandle kwabo.
- Isidima. Mhlawumbi, le yinto yokuqala ehlula inenekazikazi.
- Ubulumko, ukuthobeka nokuthozama.
- Ukungabikho kobuthakathaka kunye nokwenza izinto, kodwa ngelo xesha umfazi onjalo akayi kuphinda ahlazeke aze ahlasele.
Le yimibeko eyahlula inenekazi. Ewe, kukho ezimbalwa kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kuba namhlanje kunokwesiko ukuhamba phezu kweentloko, ubonise ubutyebi bakho ukuze ubonise kwaye uziqhayise ngeempumelelo zakho, ngamanye amaxesha awufaneleki.
Ukuziphatha kwindoda yangempela
Ukuziphatha kwale ntombi kuyimodeli. Uthetha ngokuthula, engafuni ukubeka ingqwalasela kuye, kodwa uvelisa umphumo ochaseneyo: wonke umntu uzama ukuphulaphula amagama akhe, njengokungathi awela phantsi komlingo wothando lwakhe, esakhiwe ngamakhulu amaninzi ahlukeneyo - ukuphathwa ngokuhlonipha kunye nobungane bonke abantu, ubuhle, ububele, ukunyaniseka kunye nokunyaniseka.
Le nkosikazi ayiguquki kwimigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu. Ngokukhawuleza wamkela iindwendwe kwaye unako ukunxibelelana nabani na, nokuba nguye ngokwakhe okanye ngumsebenzi olula. Akasoze afake umntu kwindawo ephazamisayo, akayi kukhubekisa kwaye akayi kuthukisa, ukuxuba amahlebezi ngomntu.