Ndiza kuqala, mhlawumbi, ngento ebaluleke kakhulu. Incwadi ethi "Ukuphupha ayinobungozi" yaziswa kum, ngethuba, xa kuyimfuneko ukwenza ukhetho: ukuhamba phambili, ukunyathela ixesha elide kunye nolwazi oluqhelekileyo, okanye ukuqala kwakhona, kwaye uzame into endiyoloko ndiphupha ngayo kodwa ayizange ikwazi ukuyenza. Yiyo le ncwadi eyenza ukwazi ukulibala ngokubandlulula, nokufumana ukuzithemba ukuze uqale ukuphila ngendlela ofuna ngayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba izihlobo zakho nezihlobo zakho zithini. Emva koko, abazali bahlala befuna kuthi asikho into esiyifunayo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, siye saxelelwa ukuba amaphupha ethu ayinto enengqondo, kwaye kufuneka sikwenze "okulungileyo", "izenzo ezinzulu" ngokombono wabo. Kodwa unokuphila ubomi bomnye umntu.
Incwadi ethi "Ukuphupha ayiyingozi," umbhali kaBarbara Cher, ukhangele yonke le mibuzo ukusuka kwelinye icala. Umbhali ukholelwa ukuba into esiyifunayo yinto esiyidingayo, kwaye akukho nto enye. Kubonakala kubonakala kulula - kuba konke kunengqiqo. Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba akusiwo wonke umntu wethu owenza oku. Emva kwakho konke, akusiwo wonke umntu wethu ovuka ekuseni, evuya ngosuku olutsha, kungekhona wonke umntu othanda izinto azenzayo imihla ngemihla. Ngoko, lixesha lokutshintsha into ethile, ungesabi into entsha, kodwa zama ukuqonda iphupha lakho elixabisekileyo.
Kwiphepha le ncwadi, umbhali uchaza ngokucacileyo indlela yokufunda ukungabi neentloni ngephupha lakho, kodwa ukulihlonela. Emva koko, iphupha elixabisekileyo libonakalisa intsingiselo yethu, luqulethwe ngolwazi malunga nobani ngokwenene kwaye ngubani esinokuba kwixesha elizayo.
Le ncwadi yandinceda ukuba ndiqonde indlela endingazalisa ngayo amaphupha am, ukuba ndifezekise njani iinjongo zam, kunye nangokunceda, ndagqiba ukuzimisela amandla am. Ndiqinisekile ukuba le ncwadi iza kunceda abantu abaninzi bafumene iitalente zabo ezifihlakeleyo, kwaye bancede benze utshintsho lwangempela kwimpilo yabo ibe ngcono! Ndiyincoma ukufunda kumntu wonke, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, isondo kunye nenkolo!
Andrew, umphathi wezinto