Ukuzithemba kukuba, mhlawumbi, enye yeempawu ezibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu. Iqala ukudala ebuntwaneni buntwaneni kwaye ifake ubomi obomi bomntu. Siyabulela kuye ukuba impumelelo yethu emphakathini, ukufezekiswa kwezinto ezifunwayo, ngokuvisisanayo kunye nokungaxinano-mbambano ngokuzibandakanya ngokwakho kudlalwa.
Ukuzithemba kukuvandlakanya kweemfanelo kunye neemfuno zokuziphatha, izenzo kunye nezenzo, ukuzimisela ngokwakho ukubaluleka kwintlalo. Ukubonakaliswa okuchanekileyo kobuntu, kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzihlola, eziza kuxutyushwa ngazo.
Ziziphi iintlobo zokuzithemba?
- Ukuzithemba / ukunganeliseki. Mhlawumbi iintlobo ezibalulekileyo zokuzithembela komntu ngamnye, kuba zichonga ukuba zinyani kwaye zinyani umntu uxabisa amandla, izenzo kunye neempawu zakhe.
- Ukuzithemba okuphezulu / okuphakathi / okuphantsi . Nantsi izinga lokuvavanya lithe ngqo ngqo. Ibonakala ngokunikela ngokungabalulekanga ngokungabalulekanga okanye ngokungafaniyo-ukungabalulekanga ukufumana iimfanelo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Iintlobo ezizimeleyo zokuzithemba ziba negalelo ekuphuculeni ukuveliswa komntu, kuba izithintelo ezincinci ukuthotyelwa kwezenzo, kwaye ziphazamisekile-zibonisa ukuba konke kulungile kwaye akukho nto enokuyenza, ngokuqhelekileyo, ayimfuneko.
- Ukuzithemba okuzenzekelayo. Kunqunywe ukuba ukuzithemba komntu kuxhomekeke kwimvakalelo yakhe okanye impumelelo kwimeko ethile
(ixesha lobomi). - Uhlolo-jikelele / oluzimeleyo / ukhonkco-ukuzihlola Ibonisa indawo apho uvavanyo luhambisa khona. Ingaba umntu uyazivandlakanya kwiinkcukacha zomzimba okanye yengqondo, kwingingqi ethile: ishishini, intsapho, ubomi bomntu. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokukhathalela kuphela iimeko ezithile.
Konke oku - iindidi eziphambili zokuvavanya ngokweenzululwazi. Ekubeni isimo sengqondo esilungileyo nesaneleyo ngokubhekiselele ekubhekiseleleni kubuncinane, kubalulekile ukubeka ingqalelo kulo mzuzwana kubantwana - kulula kakhulu ukuzithembela ngokwaneleyo kwasekuqaleni kwaye kuthetha okungakumbi.