Incwadi enesihloko esingathandekiyo "Umculi uwonke wonke" ayifani neze neencwadi eziqhelekileyo zokukhulisa abantwana. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba umlobi wakhe uJulia Cameron akayena isazi sezengqondo, okanye umviwa wesayensi yeengqondo, kodwa umbhali, umbhali weenkondlo, udlala kunye nemifanekiso yesikrini. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba oku kuyingqayizivele yale ncwadi - akuyona incwadi yesifundo, akusikho isikhokelo sokwenza isenzo, luhlobo lwencoko yomhlobo kunye nomfundi.
Enyanisweni, le ncwadi inomthombo wemibono, enokuthi isetyenziswe kwizigaba ezahlukeneyo ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana. Usikhumbuza ukuba ngamnye kuthi, ngokwemvelo, kukho into yokudala! Ukufunda le ncwadi kunye nokusebenzisa ubuchule obuchazwe ngokwenza, abazali banokuzalisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo iimpahla zabo zeengcamango ezihlukeneyo ukwenzela ukuba bancede abantwana babo baqonde ezi ngcamango.
Ukuzivocavoca okuvela kwincwadi, ezisesahlukweni ngasinye, wena, kunye nomntwana wakho, uya kukwazi ukufumana iitalente ezifihlakeleyo kunye namakhono. Emva koko, ubuchule buyinkqubo ekhangayo eyenza ukuba kube lula ukufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo, kodwa nokuba nokwenza izinto ezithile kunye nezakhono kubantwana, ngakumbi xa bekhula.
Ngokuncediswa kwincwadi ethi "Umculi kuWonke umntu" unokumathintela ngokulula umntwana ukuba abe nobuchule kwimibonakalo engavamile kakhulu, kuba usebenze ekhaya, ukucocwa, nantoni na - ingaba yinto enomdla! Oku kwenza ukuba kwenzeke isimo sengqondo ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza kumntwana, kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi "obudala" obusele bukhona.
Enye ayibalulekanga nenye yale ncwadi - kufuneka idibanise ubuchule, okungaqinisekanga, inika isiseko esibalulekileyo sokudala uxhulumaniso oluqinileyo nomntwana. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba ngumzali akukhathaleli kuphela kunye noxanduva, kwinto enhle kakhulu, amaqhawe onokuhlala kunye!
Ukongeza, ukubandakanya ubuchule kunye nomntwana wakho kuya kukunceda uhlakulele amakhono amasha, okanye ufumane kwakhona. Emva kwakho konke, akuwona wonke umzali ebuntwaneni bakhe owayenethuba lokubandakanya ubuchule, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akukho baninzi bethu baphatha umsebenzi wesikolo ngenkuthalo. Ngako oko, le ncwadi inokufumana umzali onomdla, oya kukunceda nayiphi na imeko ukuba ube nexesha elihle nomntwana wakho.
Ukudibanisa okukhulu kwile ncwadi kukungeniswa okulula kunye nokuphakamileyo kwenkcazelo - umbhali wakwazi ukuhambisa yonke into ayifunayo kwifom enomdla kakhulu kwaye inomdla, ukunyanzelisa ngenomdla omkhulu ukuqhubeka nokufunda isahluko esilandelayo.