Upelo oluqinileyo luthando lujolise ekunyuseni umtsalane kumntu othile. Impembelelo enamandla kakhulu emilenzeni eyenziwa ngoncedo lomlingo omnyama . Ukujongana nayo, kufuneka ulandele ngokungathandabuzeki zonke iingcebiso kwaye ukholelwe kwimiphumo emihle. Ukongeza, kufuneka wenze ukhuseleko, ukwenzela ukuba ungazenzeli ntlekele.
Izinto ezisemgangathweni zothando oluqinileyo
AmaRites angenziwa kuphela nje ukuba asondele kumntu, kodwa nakude. Uluhlu olusisiseko luthando lunokwenziwa kuphela kumntu obenalo ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Ngokwenene, ukwenza upelo oluqinileyo olufunekayo ukusebenzisa igazi, izipikili okanye iinwele. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba nayiphina impazamo ingabangela iingxaki ezinzulu. Ukuba umntu unomntu oqinileyo, ngoko uya kumelana nesipeliso, ekugqibeleni ekukhokelela ekuhlaselweni okungenangqiqo, ukuhlaselwa, ukuhlaselwa, ukusela utywala, njl. Ezinye i-privoroty zinokutshintsha ngokugqithiseleyo umlingiswa womntu kwaye zenze "idonki" engacabangi.
I-Privorot eqinile kumntu osemangcwabeni
Ezi zithethe zibhekwa njengeyona ndlela isebenzayo kwaye isebenzayo. Kubalulekile endlwini yento yokudumisa ukunyusa utshani kunye nayo ukuya emangcwabeni. Fumana ingcwaba kunye negama lomntu wakho. Beka ingca apho uze uthi icebo elinjalo:
"Njengoko ndakuzisa umfi (igama) ukusuka kwindlu ukuya eluhlaza, apho (igama) ehlala endlwini yakho, Uya kuhlala apha kwaye uya kumlinda. Kwakhona ikhoboka (igama) liya kundixabisa kwaye likhusele kuphela. Amen! ".
Emva koko uye ekhaya uze ungabi nantoni na.
Uthando olunamandla kakhulu ukupela ngegazi
Oku kubophezela kusebenza kuphela de ukuzalwa kokuqala komfazi, njengoko ehlanjululwa yigazi lomntwana. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba ezo zithethe ziguqula umlingiswa womntu, okwenza ulaka. I-spell eyomeleleyo yokwenza kwinyanga ekhulayo. Kubalulekile ukuba newayini elibomvu kwi-rite. Phonsa umlenze wesandla sakho sokunene uze ucindezele ukuba uqale ukugawula igazi. Beka umunwe wakho phezu kweglasi yewayini, cingela okhethiweyo kwaye uthi icebo elinjalo:
"Ngokukhawuleza ukuba wena (igama) uthathe iwayini lemilingo, unomdla wokuzikhangela uya kundikhangela, kuphela kum ngam, kuya kuba ziingcinga zakho kuphela
Kubalulekile ukuba inani lamaconsi egazi eliwela kwiwayini alinqabileyo. Emva koko, khanyisa ikhandlela elibomvu uze ucinge ngento yakho yokudumisa. Iwayini kufuneka inxiliswe ngumntu.
Inxalenye esilandelayo yesithethe - uphonononga umunwe wakho, fakela uphonsa wegazi uze uthi kuye:
"Ndiyithandeka kangakanani kum lo kuphalala kwegazi ngoko-ke makube nemihlali kaThixo (igama) kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Yiba njalo. "
Emva koko, yiphonsa ushukela, ucinge ukuba le nxalenye yakho. Phinda usebenze ngokuphindwe kathathu. Shiya ikhandlela elivuthayo, kwaye ungeze ushukela ekudleni okanye kwisiselo sento yokudumisa. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ungabona indlela isimo sengqondo esitshintshile ngayo.