Ukuphila ngumbandela othi "yonke into ifanelekileyo" akulula, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi abantu abanjalo. Ukujamelana nelizwi langaphakathi elinika rhoqo imiyalelo ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa isiluleko esinikeziwe siya kunceda.
Phila phantsi kokuhlaselwa rhoqo kwezwi elingaphakathi, elikhupha ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba liphosakeleyo, libi kangaka, ngoko akunakwenzeka kwaye unjalo? Ukuzama ukufezekisa ukugqibelela, abaninzi abanakuqaphela indlela kwiimeko apho kungabikho mfuneko kubo bonke, baphoswa amathuba okuba bafumane ixesha elifanelekileyo lobomi. Ixesha lokuba unqobe ilizwi langaphakathi kwaye ube nokuzithemba ngakumbi.
1. Jabulela inkqubo
Ukuze uphumelele, ubomi obungenakucwangciswa ngokucokisekileyo ngesihogo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kukuthintela ukuba ufikelele ekufuneni. Ukupenda kwinqanaba ngalinye, kunzima ukusabela ngokungahambi kakuhle, oku "kuphosa" ikusasa, kwaye ekugqibeleni unokuba yi-robot. Jabulela inkqubo, kwaye ngoko umphumo uya kuzisa uvuyo, kwaye ubomi buza kudlala ngemibala emitsha.
2. Kutheni uzama ukuphumelela?
Ngaba wake wazibuza lo mbuzo, ukususela nini ufune ukwenza konke ngokugqibeleleyo? Isizathu esivamekileyo sisona sengqondo sokungciphekiswa, umzekelo, kubazali, ootitshala okanye oontanga. Xa umntu ehlala eveza iimpazamo kwaye ufuna umsebenzi olungeleyo, ngoko uhlakulela umgangatho othile wokuziphatha, aqhubeka ulandela ubomi bakhe. Ukwazi isizathu seengxaki, kulula ukulwa nazo, ngoko hlalutya ubomi bakho uze ufumane ukuqala kokuphelela kwakho.
3. Gxeka ukugxeka
Abaphelelisi banamathemba ilizwi labo elingaphakathi kangangokuba baqinisekile, lithetha kuphela inyaniso, kwaye akufanelekile ukungaqiniseki. Uza kuthetha ngamapounds angaphezulu, iinwele ezimbi kunye nokunye. Yeka ukwenza samoyedstvom kwaye bhetele ubuze uluvo lomntu othembela kuye. Ukugxeka isikhali esiya kutshabalalisa, ngoko kufuneka ulwa nalo.
4. Yenza iimpazamo
Bonisa umntu ongeke enze iphutha ebomini bakhe? Ewe, aba bantu akwenzeki nje, kwaye oku kulungelelanise. Unokulwa neengcamango, udale ngamabomu iziganeko. Ngokomzekelo, shiya izitya ezingahlambulukanga uze uzivumele "ziphazamise" amehlo ngethuba elithile, zenze i-haircut ephazamisekileyo okanye iphoso elingabalulekanga kumsebenzi kunye nokunye okunjalo. Yenza iimpazamo ngokukhethekileyo kwaye uyamkele ubungqina babo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuqonda kuya kuza ukuba ihlabathi alizange litheke kulokhu kwaye akukho nto iyenzekayo.
5. Ukulibala malunga nomlinganiselo onjalo "ophelele"
Kufuneka ufunde ukubeka phambili ngokufanelekileyo nokuvavanya imeko yezinto ezisekelwe kwinyani, kungekhona. Abaninzi banokuphelela banesistim ephosakeleyo senkqubo, ebaluleke kakhulu ubomi babo. Zama ukwenza umsebenzi wokuvavanya "okuhle" okanye ubuncinane uqale "ngokugqwesileyo".
6. Thatha inyathelo
Ingxaki eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu abanengxaki yokuxhomekeka kukuba ukwesaba ukuqala into entsha. Ngokomzekelo, ndide ndifuna ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kodwa kukho njalo "imingcele" ebalulekileyo: ayikho ixesha, akukho mandla, akukho nto ikhuthazayo, njalo njalo. Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka ixesha elide, kwaye luhlaziywa rhoqo ngeempawu ezintsha. Ngoko, lo msebenzi unjengolu hlobo: ungalindeli ixesha elifanelekileyo, kodwa yenza njalo. Ndikholelwe, iziphumo ezifunyenweyo zifanelekile.
7. Ukuchonga ingxaki yoxinzelelo
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukupheleliswa kubonakala kubantu abahlala phantsi kwengcinezelo, umzekelo, ukusabalalisa ukwesaba ukungathandwa kwiintsapho okanye abantu abajikelezile. Unako, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubabuze ngokuqondile oko bacinga malunga nomntu wakho, kodwa kungcono ukuba ungacingi ngako konke kwaye uziphilele, kuba kungenangqiqo ukukholisa wonke umntu. Futhi ngokuhlala ulungelelanisa neemfuno zabanye, unokuzilahleka.
8. Kuphela ukuhlola okucokisekileyo
Umgangatho oqhelekileyo: kufuneka ufezekise umsebenzi othile, kodwa ufumana ingcinga yokuba kufuneka ulungiselele oku, kwaye "usebenzo olunesiqhwithi" luqala. Enyanisweni - kukulibazisa ixesha lokwenza isigqibo esibalulekileyo okanye ukwenza isinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekungaziwa. Funda ukuzongamela ngaloo mizuzu uze uphonsa zonke izinto ezingenanto ngaphandle. Uloyiko kunye nokugqibelela zizinto ezimbini ezingenakulinganiswa, ngoko kufuneka ulwa nazo zombini.
9. Funda ukubeka ingongoma
Iimeko eziqhelekileyo: imbono ibonakala entloko, kwaye ilizwi langaphakathi liqala ukuphosa ukungathandabuzeki. Ngenxa yoko, le ngcamango ayiguquleli ngokwenene, okanye umphumo awuyithandi nhlobo. Zibophezele ukubeka ingongoma, kungekhona i-comma, kwaye undikholelwe, ubomi buya kutshintsha. Kwakukho imbono, wacinga ngayo, wabeka iphuzu waza waqonda.
10. Musa uzame ukuphinda, yenze yakho
Xa umntu naliphi na ishishini likhokelwa ngumzekelo womnye, uzama ukuliphinda kwizinto ezincinci, ngoko kungaphumeleli, kuba akunakwenzeka. Bonke abantu ngabanye kwaye banezandla zabo zokubhala ngesandla, ngoko zibonise kwihlabathi. Mhlawumbi, uya kuba ngcono ngakumbi kunokuba ufaneleke, ngombono wakho, umzekelo. Ebona ukukhanga kwakhe, umntu uyavuya.
11. Hlaziya i-worldpiece
Unokwenza umsebenzi olula - thatha umfanekiso obhalwa ngumculi onetalente, umzekelo, oyi-Mona Lisa owaziwayo emhlabeni wonke, ubhale phantsi kwiphepha layo. Oku kuya kucaca ukuba nangona izinto ezidalwe ziintsilelo, kwaye zaba zibugcisa. Khumbula oku xa uzama ukuzisa into efanelekileyo.