Kwicawa yamaKristu kukho iisamramente eziyisixhenxe ezisisiseko, apho umntu edibanisa nebandla kunye noThixo. Kwaye abazali abaninzi banombuzo: njani ukulungiselela ubhaptizo lomntwana? Okokuqala, khetha icawa enokuthanda ukuyenza. Okwesibini, khetha oothixo kunye nonina, umqathango onyanzelekileyo-aba bantu bamele bangatshatanga. Okwesithathu, khetha igama elingokomoya lomntwana wakho, kwaye ekugqibeleni ufumane zonke izinto ozidingayo ukuze ubhaptizwe - ukubhaptizwa:
- mnqamlezo;
- ithayile ecocekileyo okanye i-diaper;
- iikhati yokwazisa;
- Icon ebusweni baloo ngcwele, ogama lakhe umntwana uya kufumana emva kwesigramente.
Impawu ezisisiseko eziphathelene nokubhaptizwa
Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukwazi nokuqwalasela iimpawu zabantu zokubhaptizwa komntwana:
- Ngosuku lomKristu akufanele kubekho ukuxabana endlwini.
- Uothixo akafanele akhulelwe.
- Kufuneka kubekho inani elingaqhelekanga leendwendwe ecaweni, kodwa kungcono ukuba wena kunye noodadewethu kuphela okhoyo ngexesha le-sakramente.
Ukongezelela, ukugcina yonke impawu ebhaptizweni lomntwana, qi niseka ukuba ugcine ikhandlela, ithawula, uphawu kunye neshati yokubhaptizwa emva kwesigramente.
Ukukhetha igama elingokomoya
Igama lobhaptizo lomntwana kufuneka libe yiOthodoki. Ukuba wabiza umntwana wakho inhle kodwa kungeyona igama lama-Orthodox, ngoko kufuneka ubhaptize umntwana ngegama elinye. Ngokwenkonzo yesonto, igama lokubhaptizwa kufuneka lihambelane negama le-Orthodox, onguhla lo bhaptizo ngokwawo luya kudlula. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba emva kwalowo ungcwele, ogama lakhe libizwa ngokuba ngumntwana, uba ngumphathi kunye nomkhuseli kuzo zonke iingxaki zobomi. Ukongezelela, igama ngalinye elingokomoya lithwala imifanekiso ethile, emva kwayo i-intle yomntu, ingqondo yakhe yokomoya, iya kufihlwa. Ngako oko, ukhetho lomntu ongcwele, emva kokuba umntwana unikwe igama lesibini, kufuneka lithathwe kuwo wonke uxanduva.
Ingxoxo ngaphambi kokubhaptizwa komntwana
Enye into ebalulekileyo abazali abafanele bayayazi ngaphambi kokuba benze isakramente yobhaptizo kuyintetho enyanzelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe ngumntwana kunye nombingeleli, ngaphandle kwalokhu ungeke uvunyelwe ukuba udibanise. Kule ngxoxo, abazali babuzwa ukuba bahamba kangakanani kwiinkonzo, bafumana intlanganiso, bathetha malunga nendlela yokubhaptizwa kunye nokholo ngokubanzi. Ngamanye amazwi, ingxoxo ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe ngumntwana yinkqubo yokulungiselela ilungiselelo ngaphambi kokuba kwenziwe isakramente ngokwayo.
Umvuzo wobhaptizo wenziwa njani?
Kwaye, ngokwenene, kuyathakazelisa kubo bonke abazali, kwaye ngokukodwa oomama, ukwazi ukuba ubhaptizo lomntwana lwenzeka njani, nokuba ngaba umama uya kuvunyelwa ukuya ecaweni, ngexesha lokoqobo? Ukuba ubhaptizo lwenzeka emva kweentsuku ezingama 40 emva kokuzalwa, unina unokube esontweni ngexesha le-sakramente. Ekuqaleni komcimbi, ngaphambi kokuba umntwana adibaniswe kwifolda, gcina oothixo bakhe - abafana bayagcinwa ngoothixo, kwaye amantombazana angabantwana bakaThixo. Emva kokuhlambela okufanayo, amantombazana anikezelwa kuoothixo, kwaye abafana bazinikela oothixo. Ukugqiba ubhaptizo, abafana baziswa ngenxa yesibingelelo,
Izithethe ezisisiseko zobhaptizo
Xa ubhaptizwa ngumntwana, izithethe zeCawa yamaOthodoki zenza ukuba oothixo babone izipho ezithile kwi-godson yabo. Ngako oko, oothixo uthenge umputi - ithawula yokubhaptizwa komntwana, ishati yokubhaptizwa kunye nekhonti. Utata godu uthengisa ikhonkco kunye nomnqamlezo, kodwa icawa ayinayo imfuno ethile yezinto eziza kubakho. Umnqamlezo kunye neketani linokuba yigolide okanye isilivere, kwaye umntu ukhetha ukuba umntwana uswele umgca kwibhoni ekhethekileyo. Ukongeza kwisipho, u-godfather uhlawula i-rite ngokwayo aze ahlanganise ietafile.