Ubungakanani bomlenze womntwana ngeminyaka

Ukukhethwa kwezicathulo kumntwana, bonke abazali bafanelekele uxanduva olukhulu. Ngomgangatho weembadada kuxhomekeke kuninzi - kunye nomoya wengane, kunye ne-gait efanelekileyo, kunye nophuhliso lwonyawo. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuya kwisitolo seesanti zezonka, zonke iingcali zincoma ukunquma imodeli kwaye ukhethe izicathulo eziphezulu ezenziwe kwizinto zendalo. Inxaxheba enkulu ekukhethweni okufanelekileyo kwezicathulo zabantwana idlalwe ngobukhulu bomlenze womntwana.

Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye izinto ezininzi ezivela kwiidrobhe zabo zinexesha lokusebenzisa kakubi nje amaxesha ambalwa. Oku kufana nezicathulo - umlenze womntwana ukhula ngokukhawuleza kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi, ngoko ke abazali bahlala befuna ukutshintsha izicathulo, izicathulo kunye neebhuthi. Kwaye ekubeni izicathulo zezingane eziphakamileyo zingabonakali, kubalulekile ukuthenga ibini elincinci kakhulu, elihambelana nobungqina bonyawo lomntwana.

Ukwazi njani ubungakanani bonyawo lomntwana?

Kwabazali abaninzi le nto ayilula. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama abangenamava kunye nootata banquma ubungakanani bomlenze womntwana ngokungalunganga. Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo abazali abazenzayo xa bezama ukufumana ubungakanani bonyawo lomntwana:

  1. Xa kuthengwa izicathulo ucele isiluleko kumntwana: "Isithende isithende okanye i-sock?". Abantwana, njengomthetho, bancinci nakwizinto ezinjalo. Ngoko ke, kungenzeka ukuba umntwana uya kuphendula "Hayi", kodwa ngokwenene kuya kuba yinto efanayo. Abantwana, okokuqala qaphele umbala wezicathulo kunye nomlo. Oku kunquma ukukhetha kwabo.
  2. Xa uthengela izicathulo, zama ukujonga ubungakanani bonyawo lomntwana, usebenzise kwienyawo zendlela oyithandayo. Nakhu ku funeka kukhunjulwe ukuba ubukhulu besikhombisi esisodwa kunye nesangaphakathi singasahluka kakhulu. Kule meko, amathuba okuthenga izicathulo eziqinileyo zomntwana zikhulu.
  3. Xa ukhetha izicathulo uzama ukucima umnwe phakathi kwesithende somntwana kunye nomva. Umntwana unokunquba iminwe yakhe, kwaye izicathulo ziya kubonakala zifanelekileyo kubazali. Kwaye kuphela ngexesha lokuhamba lokuqala kuya kukhangela ukufumana isimboli ngobukhulu.

Kwabo bazali abangakwazi ngokupheleleyo izicathulo zabantwana, kukho itafile ekhethekileyo yobunzima bemilenze yomntwana ngeminyaka yobudala. Siyabulela kule tafile unako ukugqiba ubungakanani obulinganiselweyo, ngokusekelwe kumntwana wengane. Itafile yobukhulu bomlenze womntwana ngaminyaka ibhalwe ngezansi. Abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba zonke ixabiso lilinganiselwe, kaninzi kukho ukuphambuka okuphawulekayo kumanani angezantsi.

Ubudala Ubude beenyawo Size US Ubukhulu baseYurophu
Intshi Yabona
Inyanga 0-3. 3.7 9.5 0-2 16-17
0-6 iinyanga. 4.1 10.5 2.5-3.5 17-18
6-12 iinyanga. 4.6 11.7 4-4.5 19
12-18. 4.9 12.5 5-5.5 20
18-24 iinyanga. 5.2 13.4 6-6.5 21-22
2 iminyaka 5.6 14.3 Wesi-7 23
2.5 iminyaka 5.8 14.7 7.5-8 24
2,5-3 iminyaka 6 15.2 8-8.5 25
3-3,5 iminyaka 6.3 16 9-9.5 26
4 iminyaka 6.7 17.3 10-10.5 27
4-4.5 iminyaka 6.9 17.6 11-11.5 28
5 iminyaka 7.2 18.4 12 29

Ukongeza kwitheyibhile, kukho enye indlela, indlela yokujonga ubungakanani bemilenze yomntwana. Ukwenza oku, abazali bafuna ukujikeleza unyawo lomntwana ngepensela kwaye balinganise umgama ukusuka kwisithende ukuya kwintonga yesithupha. Isibalo ubukhulu bomlenze womntwana. Le nkqubo yokulinganisa ubungakanani benyawo iyaqhelekileyo kwintsimi yamazwe angaphambili aseCIS. Kwamazwe aseNtshona Yurophu naseMerika, inkqubo ebizwa ngokuba yi-stihmassovaya yokulinganisa ubukhulu bomlenze womntwana isetyenziswe. Kuzo zibini zeembatho ubude bezinto ezingaphakathi zibonakaliswe kwiiplanga (1 stih = 2/3 cm).

Xa kuthengwa izicathulo - ehlobo okanye ebusika, abazali mabafanele bakhumbule ukuba umntwana uya kukhula ukusuka kweli qela ngokukhawuleza. Ngako oko, akunakuqonda ukuthenga izicathulo okanye iibhuthi ixesha elithile. Kufuneka uhlale ushiya indawo encinci - ukukhula. Njengomthetho, izicathulo zezingane zigqithwe kungekho ngaphezu kwexesha elilodwa. Ngoko ke, ngezibonelelo ezincinci zemali, akufanele uthenge izicathulo ezibiziweyo ezidityanisiweyo - aziyi kuhlala ixesha elide kumntwana wakho.