Ama-Mugs kubantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala

Abazali banamhlanje bayaqonda ukuba ukususela ebuntwaneni kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ukuphuhliswa kunye nemfundo yabantwana babo. Ngoko ke, nangona oomama abanabantwana abaya kwi-kindergarten, cingisisa malunga naluphi isangqa ukunika umntwana. Xa uneminyaka engama-4 ukuya ku-5, abantwana baya kuba nokusebenzisa amathuba ekwenzeni uphuhliso jikelele ngokusebenzisa iindlela zokudlala kunye nokuzivocavoca. Kwaye emva kweminyaka emi-5, unako ukubeka ingqalelo kumacandelo akhethekileyo nakwii-studio, njengoko eli lizwe libonakaliswe ngento yokuba umntwana unakho ukugxila ngakumbi ukuze aqonde ulwazi, kwaye unokukwazi ukuhlala ngokukhuselekileyo iseshoni esingaphaya kwemizuzu engama-30. Okona kubaluleke ngakumbi kukuba uneminyaka eyi-5 ubuchule kunye neminqweno yomntwana sele iqalile ukubonakalisa, ngoko ke izifundo zingakhethwa ngokuqwalaselwa kwazo.

Iimpawu ezihlukeneyo zokuphuhlisa izibonda kubantwana abeminyaka emi-5

Ngoku kukho amaziko amaninzi abantwana abonelela ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yabantwana bamaxesha ahlukeneyo, kwaye kukho ithuba lokuthabatha into efunyanwa yintsapho. Unokuyiqwalasela oku kulandelayo:

• abantu, ibhola lebhola, imidanso yezemidlalo inokuthathwa njengengqayi kubafana abaneminyaka emi-5, kunye namantombazana;
• Amazwi afanelekile nakwabantwana balo nyaka, ngokukodwa ekubeni amaziko amaninzi okuphuhliswa anika imisebenzi efana neyokuthanda abantwana;
• I-studio yezobugcisa isisombululo esikhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-5, kuba okokuqala, abantwana bayathanda imisebenzi yokudala, kwaye okwesibini, ezi zifundo azizuzisi nje kwimfundo yobugcisa, kodwa kunye nokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, ukucinga ngendawo, ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba ;
• I-gymnastics yesiqhelo yinto enye yamantombazana;
• I-Tennis nayo isisombululo esihle kubantwana, ngokuqhelekileyo bayathanda le mi sebenzi;
• studio yezobugcisa - ezinjalo izibonda kwabantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 kwiminyaka yamuva ziye zanda kakhulu, kuba abantwana abaninzi bathanda ukudlala kwisiteji baze bazive bengumdlali wangempela;
• candelo lezemidlalo;
• chess.

Le yimiqobo ephakamileyo yabangqingili bezingane ukususela kwiminyaka emi-5, nangona, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokubaninzi.

Iingcebiso eziphambili xa ukhetha

Ngaphambi kokugqiba ukhetha ukhetha isigidimi sokunika umntwana, kufuneka uqwalasele ezinye iingcebiso. Umoya kunye nomlingani womntwana kufuneka badlale indima ebalulekileyo ekwenzeni isigqibo:

• Ukungenasiphelo, umfundi ongenasiphelo esikolweni akufanele akhethe isangqa esingafuna ukuxhomekeka kunye nokugxininisa;
• abantwana abakhutheleyo nabanomdla bazibonakalisa kakuhle kwimidlalo;
• Isangqa sobungcali sigqibeleleyo kubantwana abakhutheleyo, kodwa abantu abathulile nabanentloni kubalulekile ukuzama ukuhluka okunjalo, ekubeni apha baya kukwazi ukubonisa indlela kwaye baya kukwazi ukunqoba iintloni ezingaphezulu;
• ukuba ngaba abazali banomuvo wokuthi umntwana akayi kuphelisa, uya kufunda ukusebenzisana nabanye, isisombululo esihle kakhulu siya kuba ngumdlalo wezemidlalo, umzekelo, ibhola.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uqwalasele umgama ukusuka kwicandelo ukuya kwindlu. Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka uhambe khona eziliqela ngeveki. Kufanelekile ukuthobela ingqalelo kwi-circles ngqo kwi-kindergarten okanye kwizikolo ezikufutshane.

Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuthobela ingqalelo kwimeko yempilo yengane. Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kumacandelo ezemidlalo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kubhetele ukubonisana nodokotela ngaphambili kwaye ufumane imvume yakhe.

Kufuneka sifumane zonke iinkcukacha zecandelo lezemali lo mbandela kunye neendleko ezongezelelweyo ezihambelana necandelo, umzekelo, iingubo zemidaniso okanye imveliso yecaterari, izixhobo zemidlalo, izinto zokwakha. Kufuneka nje ukuqonda izinga leendleko zakho ukwenzela ukuceba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali.

Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umnqweno umntu omncinci. Awukwazi ukuvumela ukufunda kwisangqa ukuba kudlule kuye ngamandla kwaye ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa.

Ukuba inkwenkwe ayithandi isangqa, ungakhathazeki. Kufuneka ukuba uzame amanye amacandelo kunye neeklasi ukwenzela ukuba i-crumb ithole into ayithandayo.