Ukwahlukana phakathi kwabantwana abancinci

Ezinye izibini ezitshatileyo azitshatanga ikusasa eliqhelekileyo, kwaye isibini sinqume ukwahlukana. Ngelo xesha, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukuqhawula umtshato phambi koonyana abangaphantsi kweminyaka kuthatha ixesha elide. Inkundla ibandakanyeka kwimiba enjalo. Kungcono ukulungiselela inkqubo kwaye uqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.

Umyalelo wokuqhawula umyeni nomfazi, ukuba intsapho ingaphantsi kwabantwana

Umthetho kwinkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato phambi kokuba abantwana abangaphantsi kwe- Ukraine kunye neRashiya bafana.

Inkqubo inokwahlula kwiinqanaba eziliqela eziphambili:

1. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqokelele iphakheji ethile yamaphepha.
2. Emva koko kufuneka ufeze zonke iimpahla enkundleni, kunye nesitatimende, unokuzenza okanye usebenzise inkonzo yenqwelo.
3. Emva koko, iiseshoni zenkundla ziya kulungiswa, apho bobabini bomtshato kufuneka babe khona.
4. Emva kokuqwalaselwa ngokugcwele kwazo zonke izixhobo, isigqibo siya kwenziwa.

Isicelo esenziwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo sithunyelwa kulabo abaqalise umtshato kwiindawo zokuhlala kommangalelwa. Kwi-Intanethi ungabona indlela yokubhala ngokuchanekileyo.

Kuyafaneleka ukuba nolwazi kunye nolunye uluhlu lwamaphepha afanelekileyo ekuqhawuleni umtshato womtshato onabantwana abancinane:

• ipaspoti ye-initiator;
• isatifiketi somtshato;
• kuyimfuneko ukufakela irisidi yokuhlawula umsebenzi welizwe;
• izatifikethi zokuzalwa zabantwana abaqhelekileyo.

Uzakufuna kwakhona ikopi zala maphepha. Ukongeza kwiphakheji enjalo yamaxwebhu, unokufakela isivumelwano malunga nabantwana, impahla. Umcimbi we-alimony uhlala uhleli. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uqaphele ukufumaneka kwamaphepha eqinisekisa isimo sengxelo. Ukuba inkundla ayiqwalasele izinto ezilungiselelwe ukuba ziphelele, abafazi baya kwaziswa ngale nto.

Oonyana abancinci bahlala bani ekuqhawuleni umtshato?

Enye yeengxaki zeengxoxo ezixazululwa kwimeko yokuqhawula umtshato yinkcazo enokuhlala kuyo umntwana. Emva koko, abazali abanakuze bafikelele kwiimbono ezifanayo.

Isigwebo siya kwenziwa ngokusekelwe kwiminqweno yomntwana. Inkundla iya kuqwalasela izinto ezinjalo:

• uluvo lwakhe ngabantwana abafikelele kwiminyaka eyi-10;
• Ishedyuli yokusebenza yomzali ngamnye;
• imiqathango yohlobo lwekhaya apho iqabane ngalinye liya kuhlala khona, kunye neemeko zemali;
• imeko yempilo kamama noyise, iimpawu zabo.

Abantwana abancinci bahlala behlala kunye nonina kwaye bahlukana naye kuphela kwiimeko ezizodwa.

Ukwahlukana kunye nabantwana ababini abangaphantsi komntwana kwaye bahluke kakhulu kuphela kumyalelo we-alimony.

Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuba umfazi usemthethweni, iintlawulo zenzelwe ukugcinwa kwakhe. Ukuba intsapho inomntwana okhubazekile weqela lokuqala, ngoko-alimony kufuneka ihlawulwe ngaphambi kokuba ininzi lonyaka.

Umtshato uqhawulwa njani xa kukho abantwana abangaphantsi?

Umhla wendibano uqeshwe malunga neenyanga emva kokufakwa kwesicelo. Bobabini abatshatileyo mabaxelelwe ngolu hlobo kwaye kufuneka bavele enkundleni ngexesha elimiselweyo. Ukuba akukho lwazi lokuba bobabili umyeni nomfazi baziswa ngokukhawuleza malunga nomhla wenkqubo, intlanganiso ingahlehliswa. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba omnye wabafazi unezizathu ezifanelekileyo zokungaveli enkundleni.

Isibini sinokufumana ixesha lokuxolelana. Amagama ayo aya kusekwa yinkundla.

Kuza kube nini iqhawulo lomtshato iza kuqhubeka, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko ezininzi zelo daba. Ukuba indoda kunye nomfazi phakathi kwabo kwiimeko ezininzi ziya kuvuma, yonke into iya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.

Emva kokuba kuthathwe isigqibo senkundla, kuya ku-RAPA. Endaweni enye kwaye wenze inqaku kwingxelo yomtshato. Esi sigqibo sinokubhenwa kwisithuba seentsuku ezili-10. Kamva akusekho phantsi kwesibheno.